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Nervous! (child mentioned)

2bePLC2bePLC member
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I got my FET date today and I am nervous as hell!

 For some reason I am just scared this go around.  I had IVF back in 2009 and on the first go round got a beautiful helathy baby girl.  4 months later I ended up pregnant on my own, what a shock!  My second baby girl was not healthy and passed away 6 weeks after birth

We have decided to use our frostie babies.  We have 3 and we are going to hopefully transfer 2.  Doc doesn't think all 3 will survive defrost.  I have started my BC and was told I have a transfer date of July 3rd.  Guess that means no drinking for me for the 4th of July :-) 

I just hope and pray it all goes well and we are blessed with a child (or two) from this transfer. 

Just wanted to get that out.  I have decided not share this with anyone for a while so I need a place to release my feelings

thanks for listening

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  • LuvWIfootballLuvWIfootball member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Good luck with your FET.

                          

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    DS1 born July 2002 (previous marriage).

    TTC since Oct 08. DH Dx w/testicular cancer March 09.
    MFI due to retrograde ejaculation/azoospermia.
    5/2 IVF #1 cancelled due to large follie.
    6/14 start Lupron for IVF #1.2. 6/22 start stims.
    7/4 ER and Biopsy.
    7/9 Transferred 2 (1-4BB and 1-3BB) embryos.  4 frosties.
    7/15 +HPT 6dp5dt. 7/18 Beta #1: 193. 7/20 Beta #2: 415.
    8/10 1st u/s - It's triplets!

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  • Bizzy80Bizzy80 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl.  I can understand why you are nervous about proceeding with the FET.  I wish you the best of luck and pray everything goes well for you!
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  • Whales124Whales124 member
    Sorry for your loss - wishing you the best of luck with this FET!
    ~ Me, 30 DH, 32 ~ TTC since Oct 2009 septum resection 3/2010 stage IV endo 8/2011 IVF #1 1/25/12, 2 transferred, 2 frozen - BFN FET 2/22/12, 2 transferred - BFN IVF#2 5/12, transferred 3, froze 5, BFP! Beta 1: 151, Beta 2: 282 Cerclage placed @ 17 weeks due to shortening cervix, modified bed rest until delivery SAIF/PAIF always welcome image It's a girl! ~ Clare was born 1/31/13
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  • rebaannrebaann member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and wish you luck with your FET.
    My Life in D.C.
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    Cycle 12, IUI #1 - 33m post wash 10/15/10 = BFN
    Cycle 13, IUI #2 - 15m post wash 11/16/10 = BFP, missed m/c, D&C 1/3/11
    Cycle 15 - 18, IUI #3-6 = BFN
    Cycle 20, IUI #7 = BFP!, missed m/c 9/14, D&C
    DE-IVF Aug. 2012: ER 8/30 11R, 7M, 4F; ET 9/4 returned 2
    Beta 9/18 #1-820, #2-1699, #3-7124
    10/1 1st u/s measuring right on track, 125 bpm

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  • kmc84kmc84 member
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl. I hope your FET goes well and you get a healthy little baby!!!
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    TTC# 1 since 5/10
    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13
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    TTC #2
    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
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