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My Mothers Birthday Wish.... hmmmm i wonder

So, my family and I were all out to eat Saturday Night for my mothers birthday. Now, this weekend has been tuff for me as it is. All the commercials and movies on TV, post on Facebook, I'm ready to snap! But after we eat and everyone is almost ready to go, they bring out a piece of cake with a candle on top, and all the waitresses came over and sang Happy Birthday. So she says...I'm going to say my wish out loud and she started crying and said, " For my Jackie to have a baby"

Ugh death... I started crying, my grandma started crying, my sister started crying, my aunt cried, basically it was a cry fest. No pressure mom! i know she means well but...really! Your not even suppose to say your wish or it wont come true!

Boo to this weekend:(

On a nice note, my nephew Max brought me a beautiful plant for being the best God Mother for Mothers Day so that was a nice treat:)

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Re: My Mothers Birthday Wish.... hmmmm i wonder

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    That's tough, I'm sorry.
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    Aww I'm sure your mom went well but I can imagine that was a difficult situation.   Here's hoping your mom gets her b day wish though.  ((hugs)) 
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    thanks guys:)
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    HinessnHinessn member

    That could not have been easy to deal with. I'm so sorry!

     I'll be honest I did LOL a bit - I imagined being that unknowing waitress and witnessing the cry fest.

    But that was sweet about your nephew!!

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    That is so sweet of your mom, but so hard to deal with at the same time. 
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    I bet that was really hard to deal with, you're right, talk about pressure.  It's sad the things that people say meaning well and end up hurting.  How sweet that your nephew thought of you, awwwww.

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    As PPs said, I am sure your mom meant well, but that is a tough situation. I am sorry ((hugs))

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    NeeseyNeesey member
    I know it was hard at the time but I think it was really sweet. We all wish we could do more to fix the problem but sometimes that isn't possible. I think it is really sweet that the one thing your mom thought she could do was to have her birthday wish be for you.  I'm sure that she would give anything to see you happy. 
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