I am dealing with postpartum depression really bad so I have finally broke down and called my doctor, I refuse to take anti-depressents (long story short...they make me violently ill). My doctor has prescribed me Ambien (a sleeping pill), and told me to have DH take over some night time feedings so I can get some rest. Well that is fine and he would gladly do it, EXECPT we have completely different ways of parenting. I feed the baby, burp her, hold her for a little while and put her in the bed. She may cry a little and it may take a few times but I am adamant that she sleep in bed (this is a safety thing for me). My Dh idea is to feed her then hold her all night long or let her sleep on the couch, which is not safe in my opinion. I understand he does what is easy for her stay asleep but then when she gets me and I don't do what he does then I get her screaming for a few nights until she gets back in the routine. I have tried several times to explain why she needs to sleep in her bed, and it is like he does not care. So here I am miserable crying ALL THE FLIPPING time and I give up and call my doctor because everyone is on my case and I can't even take the meds. BTW.....both me and DH work full time so I can't sleep when she sleeps, and I tried to take a nap yesterday and I was woken up so I can't even get a flipping break on the weekends! Does anyone DH not agree with them or does what you specially ask them not to do. Oh yeah, and my in-laws were in town this past weekend and rocked her all weekend long, and I don't rock, so now we are having that issue too!