So, at this point and time, my boyfriend's mother is AWOL in New York and has no idea we're pregnant. Thank god for that. My greatest wish is that it would stay that way, and BF feels the same way. His mother was abusive, manipulative, mentally unstable, and just a general bad influence (she stripped and prostituted herself during his childhood). She hasn't been in his life for years, and like I said, I'd love to keep it that way.
But what do I do if she finds out? Obviously, if my boyfriend at any point decided he'd want to try and mend his relationship with her, I would be supportive, but I still would not feel comfortable with her being around my child. And if they DON'T, how do I handle her if she tries to come into our life? Can you get a restraining order on the basis of her being a psycho?
Has anyone else had a similar situation or have any advice? This is honestly one of my biggest concerns about this child growing up is what is going to happen when she finds out she has a grandchild floating around that she can try and sink her claws into.