TTC After a Loss

Dear Body...

I am annoyed with you!

I was off bc for 6 months before bfp.  All 6 months I was on a fairly regular cycle, somewhere between 30-35 days, which was good for me! 

Since my mc in November, I've had 2 periods (41 and 50 day cycles).  And right now, I'm on day 58 of my cycle.  Annoying, but even more annoying is the fact that I've been "PMSy" (sore bbs, cramps, headachy-ive accounted allergies for this) for at least 2 weeks.  AND I got a positive opk on days 19 and 20.  Trust me, I've taken approximately 9,000 pregnancy tests all with BFNs. 

I have a doctor's appt on Monday to talk about fertility in general, but I'm just annoyed!

Thanks for letting me vent...I appreciate it :)

1st bfp- 11/14/11 mc 11/26/11

Re: Dear Body...

  • post M/C AFs tend to be off for a lot of people...  If you can normally trust OPKs i would definitely be a little worried that AF hasnt shown up after 20 days.  Good luck!
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  • imageAngnShaun:
    post M/C AFs tend to be off for a lot of people...  If you can normally trust OPKs i would definitely be a little worried that AF hasnt shown up after 20 days.  Good luck!

    This ... But I'm sorry you're even having to worry. It's good that you're seeing your doctor on Monday, but I know it frustrating. My chart says I haven't O'd yet this month, and it's seriously driving me batty. Good luck to you!

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  • Ugh. I'm sorry :(.
    BabyFruit Ticker BFP #1 - 1-25-2012. Missed M/C discovered at 9 weeks 3 days. D&C 3-9-2012

    BFP #2 - 10-11-2012 Beta 38, 10-15-2012 Beta 518!.
  • I hope AF shows soon.  Cycles can be very off after mc.  If she doesn't show, I hope you get some answers at your appointment next week!  GL!

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    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • imageDC2London:
    That is definitely confusing, and I can imagine you must be frustrated.  I hope your doc can help you find some answers, and that AF shows her ugly face (or you get a BFP) very soon!

     This.  I hope you get some answers soon.

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  • I am in exactly the same boat and it's super annoying that I've been spending money on pg tests when the are all BFN and my temps say I did ovulate and I still have no period.  I hope your appointment goes well, I just got back from mine and get my lab results back tomorrow.
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  • imageRosiePeare:
    I know all about this worry--I'm on CD 102 post-m/c. (Provera didn't work for me, so now I'm back on bc and also going in for an HSG in a couple of weeks.) I'm so sorry--I know how frustrating waiting for AF is, especially when it feels like you have all the symptoms!! Vent to me anytime--I get it!

     

    UGH!!  102!!!  How are you dealing?!?  At what point did you go to the doctor?

    1st bfp- 11/14/11 mc 11/26/11
  • imagemistiffany28:

    imageRosiePeare:
    I know all about this worry--I'm on CD 102 post-m/c. (Provera didn't work for me, so now I'm back on bc and also going in for an HSG in a couple of weeks.) I'm so sorry--I know how frustrating waiting for AF is, especially when it feels like you have all the symptoms!! Vent to me anytime--I get it!

     

    UGH!!  102!!!  How are you dealing?!?  At what point did you go to the doctor?

    Just reread, and dont think this came across nearly as sympathetic as I intended!!

    ((Hugs)) to you during this time!!!  Hope AF shows up soon!

    1st bfp- 11/14/11 mc 11/26/11
  • I hear you mistiff.  Hope she shows up soon!
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    BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
    BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
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