I thought it was a pretty good article, though I don't agree with all the reasons why women stay silent. I am silent (except for a few close friends) because I wouldn't announce a pregnancy the mintue the pee dried on the stick anyway. I don't want people to know when I am going through treatments not becasue I am afraid of failing but because anything could happen and if I was able to get pregnant naturally we wouldn't tell anyone until at least 12 weeks anyway.
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IVF#4 Sept 2013--BFN IVF#5-7 Apr 2014, Jun 2014 and Aug 2014 banking embryos for CCS testing. Praying for normals!
Thanks for sharing, I'm glad IF is getting some media attention this week. Only thing I disagree with in the article is at the end where it says you can give an infertile hope by saying it only took you 4 months to get KU - that makes me snarky, not hopeful.
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Thanks for sharing, I'm glad IF is getting some media attention this week. Only thing I disagree with in the article is at the end where it says you can give an infertile hope by saying it only took you 4 months to get KU - that makes me snarky, not hopeful.
I saw that too. I think the wording was "it took us 4 tries to get pregnant" or something like that so I was giving them the benefit of the doubt that their definition of "tries" meant IUI or IVF or something along those lines.
I wrote a blog yesterday about what not to say to an infertile and "I can relate, it took us 4 whole months to get pregnant" was on there. Definitely can't relate.
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3 Clomid, 1 Clomid/Menopur, 1 Menopur w/ TI (CX 4x's due to cysts) - All BFN
1 Clomid/Menopur, 2 Menopur, 1 Follistim w/ IUI - All BFN
RPL & Karyotype testing normal
A lot of us ladies, unfortunately, can relate to her emotional rollercoaster. I actually got teared up reading it.
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I thought it was a pretty good article, though I don't agree with all the reasons why women stay silent. I am silent (except for a few close friends) because I wouldn't announce a pregnancy the mintue the pee dried on the stick anyway. I don't want people to know when I am going through treatments not becasue I am afraid of failing but because anything could happen and if I was able to get pregnant naturally we wouldn't tell anyone until at least 12 weeks anyway.
TTC#1 since April 2011
IVF#1 July 2012 5R, 3 made it to blast, sET c/p
FET#1 Aug 2012 2 blasts transferred BFN
IVF#2 Oct 2012
16R/6M/6F/2-8 cell grade 1 transfer
Beta 1-237.9, Beta 2-566, Beta 3-8657
US 6w3d shows one baby w/ HB 115
US 7w1d no more heartbeat/ D&C 11/30/12 normal karyotype
IVF#3 Mar 2013
6R/4M/4F 1 compacting and 2-8 cell transfer
ectopic pg MTX given 3 month break from TTC
IVF#4 Sept 2013--BFN


http://i61.tinypic.com/34zll06IVF#5-7 Apr 2014, Jun 2014 and Aug 2014 banking embryos for CCS testing. Praying for normals!
I saw that too. I think the wording was "it took us 4 tries to get pregnant" or something like that so I was giving them the benefit of the doubt that their definition of "tries" meant IUI or IVF or something along those lines.
I wrote a blog yesterday about what not to say to an infertile and "I can relate, it took us 4 whole months to get pregnant" was on there. Definitely can't relate.
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TTC #1 March 2010 - Nov 2012
Me: 29, PCOS (anov), Hashimoto's Disease // DH: 30, normal SA
3 Clomid, 1 Clomid/Menopur, 1 Menopur w/ TI (CX 4x's due to cysts) - All BFN
1 Clomid/Menopur, 2 Menopur, 1 Follistim w/ IUI - All BFN
RPL & Karyotype testing normal
IUI #5 (12/1/12) --> Follistim + 1/3 hCG Trigger = BFP! EDD: 8/23/13
Betas --> 61 (13dpo) // 156 (16 dpo) // 223 (18dpo) // 656 (21 dpo)
U/S --> 5w0d - sac seen // 6w0d - hb detected // 7w0d - hb seen and heard, measuring 6w6d!
8w6d - wiggly baby! // 9w3d - wiggly baby with fingers!
Baby boy born 8/24/13
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Me: 29, Mild DOR
DH: 31, SE mostly normal, 1st SE morph 5%, 2nd SE morph 15%...yeah!.
BFP July 2011, Natural MC August 2011.
3 cycles of 50mg Clomid = BFN
*New RE* Feb/Mar 2012 100 mg Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
*3rd RE* April-June -Break Cycles begin prep for IVF by doing 2 Heparin injects daily....fun fun!
IVF #1 - ER 7/19, ET 7/24, 2 beautiful embies transferred. Beta 8/2 = BFN
*New RE...yes again* FET Nov 2012 with our lone ranger = BFFN
RE Suggests Trying IUI Again, Jan. 2013 IUI #2 =BFN
Feb. 2013 IUI #3 = BFP!!!, Beta #1 (15dpIUI) = 90, Beta #2 (17dpIUI) = 210, U/S Scheduled for 3/18
I just read that myself. I found another one of the articles linked there to be very touching, actually: https://health.msn.com/pregnancy/birth-story-a-light-at-the-end-of-infertility?page=1
A lot of us ladies, unfortunately, can relate to her emotional rollercoaster. I actually got teared up reading it.
Dx: Feb '13 - HSG shows clear tubes but minor diverticulitis; Borderline DOR; Low DHEA and low testosterone.
Moving on to IUI or IVF.
We've got a peen.....it's a boy!
Little man born 11.17.2013 via c-section
I was also surprised to see this article on USA Today yesterday.
https://www.usatoday.com/news/health/story/2012-04-23/infertility-young-women/54482470/1
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DX: Hypothyroidism, PCOS, Myasthenia Gravis, Aplastic Anemia, one copy MTHFR DH SA: count 52% motility (slow progressive), 0% normal morph
June-July 2012: Clomid cycles=BFNs
August 2012: New RE, started Metformin, Letrozole 7.5mg+TI=BFN Sept. 2012: IUI#1: Letrozole 7.5mg=BFN
Oct. 2012: IUI#2 Letrozole 7.5mg+Dexamethasone=BFN
Nov '12-March '13 on a break
April 2013: IUI#3 Letrozole 7.5mg+Dexamethasone=BFN
June 2013: IVF#1 Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix =BFN, 3 Frosties
August 2013: FET#1=BFP 8/20/13, EDD 4/30/13, MMC 10/1/13
December 2013: IVF#2 Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix=?
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