ugh dh has me so stressed out

CantWait2Be

DH seems to be stressing me out a lot lately (it's always about money, every time I turn around he's buying something he just "has" to have but we don't have the money for) but the latest one is because taxes still aren't done yet he insists on doing them himself since he has a business.  He says its easier for him to go through his stuff than try to explain it to someone else.  This wouldn't be so bad if he kept things organized along the way but year after year he doesn't and doesn't learn his lesson.  Then he gets all pissy with me because he's stressed and needs to get it done.  I think he's trying to make me die of stress.  And of course the stress he causes me is affecting my already lack of sex drive.  We still haven't dtd since ds was born.

casirdms

Sorry, hope things get better! Money issues can be stressful but adding that on top of no intimacy is I'm sure straining on your marriage! Good luck

kaitylin

DH and I are struggling with stress too. We are selling our place, moving to a temporary 600 sq/ft rental, and building a new build all at the same time and it's overload. That on top of the terrible PPA I've dealt with this year has made everything so hard on us. We will pull through but right now we are just scraping by and trying to get through the stress of multiple moves with a 10 month old. I wish I had family nearby to just go and cry and get support somedays because the stress is taking a huge toll on me. We've also only dtd once since DD was born (and maybe once while KU) so twice in like a year and a half :-S