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Medical expense deduction

The medical expense tax deduction question seems to be coming up a lot lately, but I am wondering...

If we receive the $20,000 for shared risk as a gift from family, can we deduct the expense on our own return, even if it didn't come from our own personal income? Hmmmm....

Probably a question for a tax accountant, but wanted to hear if anyone had some insight. IL's have offered us the money for shared risk, and I would love to pay them back at least a little with the money from a potential tax return check. Obviously, this would be for next year's taxes. But this might lead us to accepting the money more readily, if we could pay them back even a small portion.

I know that we do not have to pay taxes on the gift income. The giver pays the gift tax.

Started TTC 2/2009
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"

....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!

Re: Medical expense deduction

  • I am not an accountant but I think you can take it if you structure it correctly. First off, the IRS allows a yearly gift of 13K per person may be slightly higher now but that is what is was last time I checked). So your family needs to split the gift into 2 portions: say 10k to you and 10k to DH. Deposit funds in your account so it is "your" $. They will not pay a gift tax and neither will you. Then you are free to spend the $$ as you want. If you use it for the shared risk, just keep all your receipts etc and I think you could take it. Just don't have family pay it directly to the IVF program.

    TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
    DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
    5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
    OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
    DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
    DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
    CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
    DE IVF #3 1/14  ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d

    DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
    First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!

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  • Thanks. That makes sense.
    Started TTC 2/2009
    Started fertility treatments 11/2010
    Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
    6 failed medicated IUI's
    Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
    Decided to adopt - 6/2012
    SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
    Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
    Decided to be "One and Done"

    ....OR NOT.
    Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
    Here we go again...
    Due 8/26/19!
  • I'm an accountant.  My parents gave Dh and I money in 2011 to pay for most of our last IVF.  Since technically once they gave it to us, it is ours to be used as we see fit, I took the medical deduction on our 2011 tax return.  I was comfortable doing this based on my research and the info on the IRS website.  The previous poster makes a valid point... You can't claim this as medical if they pay the dr directly.   

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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