Community› The Bump Message Boards› TTC After a Loss
TTC After a Loss
New Discussion
Options

Intro

rebekamrebekam member
in TTC After a Loss

Hello Ladies,

I just recently experienced a missed m/c. It was my first BFP and I was devastaed. I am still waiting for AF but have been stalking this board for a while now and figured it was time to say hello. I'm looking forward to getting to know you all..

 

"If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again." Anniversary Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BabyFruit Ticker Stick Baby Stick!
Report Reply to Post

Re: Intro

  • Options
    Allycat11Allycat11 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope your stay here is short and sweet. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

    Report Reply
  • Options
    Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • Options
    edinger3edinger3 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  I also experienced a missed m/c (11w4d; baby 10w3d).  I can still feel the pain & sorrow from that day that we were told that there wasn't a heartbeat.  I hope that your stay is short & sweet, but the ladies on this board are phenomenal & a wealth of information.  Look forward to getting to know you too!
    BFP#1: 10/29/11 EDD: 7/14/12 MMC: 12/28/11 BFP#2: 5/17/12 EDD: 1/27/13 Trevor was born on 1/21/13! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker photo 8e4774ee-d2a4-4dd5-9180-492d059e568e_zpsb44e90d8.jpg
    Report Reply
  • Options
    melly918melly918 member
    I am sorry for your loss and welcome to TTCAL.
    DS born 2009
    BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
    BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • Options
    panacea05panacea05 member

    I'm so sorry. My first loss was a missed m/c, too. 

    Welcome to the board. I hope you get that BFP as soon as you're ready for it. ((hugs)) 

    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
    Report Reply
  • Options
    KacyChicagoKacyChicago member

    I am sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Be sure the check out the blog, as it helped me a lot when I was new here.

    I hope you find a lot of love and support here!

    photo AlbumsWideColorBump_zps1797df63.jpg

    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
    Report Reply
  • Options
    lovelainielovelainie member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope your stay here is short and sweet. 
    TTC with MFI, PCOS, and endometriosis since February 2010
    BFP January 20,2012, Loss confirmed January 22,2012
    March-August 2012: Various medicated/IUI cycles, all BFN
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy October 2012: Fall Cleaning, Uterus Edition
    BFP 2-17-12 @12DPO Beta#1: 256 Beta#2: 1061
    EDD:10-27-13
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Options
    s.alaries.alarie member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find reading, posting, and sharing here as helpful and therapeutic as I do. 

    Report Reply
  • Options
    ErinE683ErinE683 member
    Sorry to be welcoming you to this board. But there is a lot of support to be had around here. I hope you get to move on to another board as soon as you're ready. 
    image    Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage

    Report Reply
  • Options
    TA110980TA110980 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  You will find a lot of support here.  I hope your stay here is short and sweet.  {{hugs}}
    image
    BFP#1 - 09/12/11, EDD 5/18/12 - Stopped growing at 6w3d, m/c induced 10/14/11
    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

    Report Reply
  • Options
    holly_g13holly_g13 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I also had my first BFP turn into a missed m/c. The first AF post m/c is such a bitter sweet thing. I hope your stay is short and sweet, and that you get your take home baby soon
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • Options
    behapy2daybehapy2day
    I recognize you from the MC/PL board. I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome to this side... it's a great group of ladies!

    He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.

    <a href="http://s279.photobucket.com/albums/kk121/behapybride/?action=view
    Report Reply
  • Options
    MandaJo9MandaJo9 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. 
    BFP#1: 9.16.08 DD: 5.28.09
    BFP#2: 7.10.11 MMC: 8.3.11 D&C: 8.29.11
    BFP#3: 12.5.11 MC: 12.22.11
    BFP#4: 2.14.12 MMC: 3.8.12 D&C: 3.13.12 Loss due to Trisomy 16
    BFP#5: 6.11.12 MC: 6.28.12 Loss due to Triploidy
    RPL BW, Sonohystogram, Chromosome testing on DH and myself = everything is normal
    BFP#6: 12.4.12 EDD: 8.16.13
    Things I did different with this pregnancy:
    1. Waited TTC until after I had 3 normal menstrual cycles.
    2. Got a new OB - amazing man who listened!
    3. 200 mg progesterone until 12 weeks
    4. Daily lovenox injections
    Report Reply
  • Options
    pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  This board is such a safe haven.  I hope you'll be comfortable here.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
    BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Options
    delinodelino member
    I'm very sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • Options
    sammer818sammer818 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry you have cause to be here. I hope you find everything you need and that your stay is short!

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
    image
    ~All AL always welcome~

    Report Reply
  • Options
    rebekamrebekam member

    Thank you all for all of the support.. I have found the posts to be so helpful! It is so nice to have a safe haven.. and I have found one here...

    "If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again." Anniversary Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BabyFruit Ticker Stick Baby Stick!
    Report Reply
  • Options
    mijakachmijakach member
    Welcome to the board. I am so very sorry for your loss.
    imageimageimage
    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

    FF Chart
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"