Waiting sucks

mnieciecki

I know most OBs won't see you till your 8 weeks or close to it.  I find waiting for this appt long and I'm antsy.  I am going off my lmp or what I think it was.  My periods have been anything from consistant. I guess I just want a Dr to tell me yes we think your edd is what i am guesstimating it to be, that everything is where it's supposed to, and it all looks good.  I still have 2 weeks to wait.  I guess I am just venting but this sucks. (yes I know..cry me a river!)

JTink0609

I hear ya! My first appt isn't until 4/30!! We were going to wait until my first appt to tell our families but I don't know if I can keep it in that long!!

mnieciecki

I am in the same boat. I really really want to let the family in on what's cooking but DH wants to make sure all is well before we declare it to our families.  Plus, they all have big mouths and don't want it to circulate yet.   Gosh, 4/30 seems like forever away and I have to wait till the 13th yet I'm complaining  

JTink0609

When I told H thats when they scheduled my appt for he was like "WHAT!!!" I don't think he's going to be able to keep it in that long but we'll see. I have a feeling some people at work might find out, but given the fact that I don't work with people I socialize with it shouldn't be a problem, as long as I remind them not to say anything on facebook! My bff does know and H is planning to tell his bff, just to have someone to share the news with, but thats it. My MIL was over just the other day and I felt horrible for not telling her, but I do want to wait. It's still so early and ya never know what could go wrong, not that I want to thing negativley but I just keep thinking of how much worse it will be to tell people we are just to have to tell them we aren't.

Carolee

I hear you!  I'm on pins and needles until I can get in for my first appointment.

starsinger17

I have an "orientation" April 13th and then they'll make my appointment from there. The wait might just kill me. I am not a patient person, erg. Although my friends seem to be more impatient about this than I am.

jbrennan312

Same here I don't have my 1st appt till May 3rd! I will about 9wks.

ucfsteph12262003

I am right there with ya!

mocasio3357

Ugh... Totally feel the same way! April 26 for me and want to hold off telling also. Its the pits. 

At least we can all suffer together. 

JLSmith124

I definitely hear ya! I had a m/c last month, so I am especially antsy. I had bloodwork done yesterday and hope to hear good news tomorrow, then we will schedule our appointment.