So tomorrow is DD's birthday party, and the first event we have hosted at our house since we moved here. Its still "under construction" so not everything is the way most people have things. Our middle bathroom didn't have a sink - well, I didn't think it was a good idea to have everyone over and make them wash their hands in the kitchen (like we've been doing for a year - but really I just wanted an excuse for a sink!) So I found a used one online and bought it last week. Told DH to put it in last weekend, because I had a lot of stuff for us to do to get the house "party ready" and didn't want him doing it last minute.
Well, as you can already guess....its still not in. Last week instead of doing the sink (what I classify as high priority) he decided to brick the area that we have our trash cans in. Seriously? Yeah it looks good. But not a necessity. He could have done it any night this week. But no, he didn't. So it is almost 9 and I still don't have a sink. I want to enjoy tomorow, not worry about getting everything finished. I have been up since 5:30 and going non-stop to get things just the way I want them. yeah, I had to do grocery shopping and present shopping for DD...but I had planned on doing it today.
I'm just really angry because he always does this. I'm tempted to just wrap DD's gifts, make the pasta salad like I planned, and then leave the rest of the house the way it is. It's not much, but just a few small things that would make a big difference. I bought a book last sunday, and still haven't been able to start reading it because I can't ever get any time for myself. I know that comes with the territory of being a mom, I'm just upset and DD is now awake so I have to figure out what to do to get her to go back to sleep. Ugh. I will quit whining but I have to get it off of my chest.