M/S Meds ?

jillychris

After getting sick once an hour from 2:00pm until after midnight last night, and starting to throw up blood (sorry, TMI!), I called my RE this morning to see what else I can do. Crackers, constant eating, etc, isn't working so well.

They are calling in a z.ofran script for me. Part of me is thankful, part of me feels like I've admitted defeat. I have always said that I would happily throw up for 9 months if that's what it takes to get my take home baby...and I will, if that's what I need to do!

I hung up the phone and burst into tears. I feel like I am cheating by accepting this med. Anyone else struggle with this?

Mrs.McIrish

***lurking**

There is no need to torture yourself if something can help you. Take the meds and lose your guilt. You aren't cheating at all.  Just my 2cents.

DebateThis

Take the meds! Dehydration is seriously risky for your health and the baby's and the meds will make you feel better.

I had zofran after my surgery last year and it was some awesome stuff.

hunterjumper102

Oh honey I feel the same way.  I am nauseous every day all day and while that thrills me I just can't handle it anymore since it keeps me from eating.  I hope when I go tomorrow they can give me something also.  Don't look at it as defeat, look at it as your doing the best thing for your health and that of your LO.  Feel better sweetie.

vanessagorc

Ur not cheating, u can't vomit blood!  I actually sold zofran, and it's a safe drug.  Get some relief!   No need to live in hell, when u don't have too.  There are no extra points, for suffering more

Its just the woman's nature to sometimes be a martyr.  No need for that.  Feel better!!!!! 

jillychris

Thank you ladies. I know I need to do what's best for my health, and especially for my LO!! It can't be good that nothing I ate or drank yesterday afternoon stayed down. Hopefully this will be the trick I need!

moosegal

Girl, you were vomiting blood!!!! You are not admitting defeat, you are being smart by seeking help. Your main task right now is staying healthy to keep LO healthy. The meds can only help you do that. Hope you feel better soon!

cookie_queen

vanessagorc:

Ur not cheating, u can't vomit blood!  I actually sold zofran, and it's a safe drug.  Get some relief!   No need to live in hell, when u don't have too.  There are no extra points, for suffering more

Its just the woman's nature to sometimes be a martyr.  No need for that.  Feel better!!!!! 

V is smart.

kobrie01

You are 100% doing the right thing. If you are throwing up blood and can't keep food down, it's better to take the meds and keep yourself and the LO healthy. I'm struggling with the decision right now. I had a few very bad days last week followed by several okay days. If the bad days start to out number the good, the Dr. told me to start taking Zofran.  Good luck and feel better! 

Ann679

I totally understand how you feel about saying you would gladly barf for 9 mos to get your take home baby, however, barfing that much sucks!  I was there too.  I finally gave in and asked the Dr for something.  You have to remember that not being able to eat or drink can lead to problems.  You're not cheating.  You're doing what you need to do to feel good.  The Dr told me not too worry that the baby will take what it needs and leave me feeling like crap.

He gave me Zofran as well.  It really didn't help me that much.  It makes you very constipated so make sure to eat a lot of fiber and drink water.  For me, the Zofran only gave me relief for about 2 hours and I could only take one every 6 hours.  My sister took a Unisom and 50mg of B6 at night so I asked the Dr.  He said to go ahead and try it.  That worked wonders! 

I hope you feel better!! 

naybird

Don't feel bad at all. It's not admitting defeat, it's helping you feel better. Big hugs!!

lovemygs

I couldn't have made it through my first 16 weeks without zofran and phenergan. Take it. You need the relief, and your baby needs you at your best!

cutebride73

I have been on zofran for 4 weeks now - since week 8.  I tried to hold out, but it was so bad.  I couldn't keep anything down at all - I was sick all day, I could barely function at work.  I had to do something.  Even with zofran I still feel nauseaus and I still get sick a couple times a week, but I can function pretty well and eat most days.  I have varied between 2 pills a day and 3 (4mg each). but I really need 3 to function best. 

I would take it if I were you.  You can't be that sick - it's not good.  It's okay to take something that will help you.  It's not giving up - you don't need to punish yourself or prove anything.  Taking care of yourself is important.  Hope you feel better soon.