My fiance is scheduled to leave for a 13-14 month deployment 2-3 months before my due date. This is our first child, and the pregnancy wasn't planned, hence the terrible timing. We are both excited but I feel bad that he won't be able to be there for the first year of the baby's life, and I know he is down about it too. Has anyone else gone through this or is going through it now? Does anyone have any advice for getting through it?
BFP #1 2/25/12, EDD 10/30/12, missed m/c at 8 weeks, natural m/c on 4/16/12 at 11 weeks.
BFP #2 7/8/11, EDD 03/18/13.