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So I've been lurking for the past few weeks, and it's about time I introduce myself...

I got pregnant while I was on the depo shot and unfortunately lost our baby at about 8wks (doctors weren't sure exactly how far along I was) almost a month ago. The doctors aren't saying much, but I'm pretty sure that being on the depo had a lot to do with the miscarriage. The last few weeks have been hard, but we are excited to start trying...now if only af would get here already! :) You all seem like an awesome bunch of ladies and I can't wait to join you! 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Just be gentle with yourself and make sure you have the time that you need to grieve.  I hope you find a lot of support and help here.  When did the doctor clear you to TTC again?  Also, this board is slower at night, so you might get more traffic in the morning.  But, welcome. 
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  • Thank you! My OB said to wait 2 cycles. So for now I'm going to start charting and temping. I also want to wait a while to make sure that my lining is strong enough this time around.
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  • Welcome to the board and I'm very sorry for your loss. Have you had a chance to read the TTCAL blog yet? It has a lot of helpful info to start your TTCAL journey. I hope your stay here is short & sweet!

    DD born 3/23/2013; Baby #2 EDD 9/7/2015

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  • Welcome. I am really sorry for your loss. 
    TTC since June 2011

    <a href="http://lagf.lilypie.com/MAwum4.png">BFP#1 7/8/11, EDD 3/15/12, M/C 8/21/11 (10w3d)</a>

    <a href="http://lagf.lilypie.com/9aomm4.png">BFP #2 2/9/12, EDD 10/22/12, M/C 2/17/12 (4w4d)</a>


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    PGAL/PAL and kindness always welcome.
  • Sorry for your loss, and welcome.
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I am sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board!  I hope your stay here is short.
    BFP#1 10/24/11 ~ EDD 6/27/12 ~ m/c 11/15/11 BO
    BFP#2 6/10/12 ~ EDD 2/21/13 ~ mm/c 7/12/12 ~ D&C 7/13/12
    BFP#3 2/23/2013 ~ EDD 11/5/13 Beta#1 125, Beta#2 436, Beta#3 ???
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, I hope AF arrives soon and your stay is short.
    BFP #1 (m/c at 9 weeks, 11/11) BFP #2 (DS, 12/11/12) BFP #3 (EDD 10/8/14)
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
    TTC#1 since 3/2011; BFP#1 12.29.11 - m/c 1.27.12 at 8w4d

    4-6/2012 - 2 failed Clomid IUI's

    7/2012 - taking a TTC break = BFP#2! EDD 4.5.13 Grow Little Munchkin Grow!!

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  • Sadly, welcome.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  Hopefully, you find the comfort that you need here and only need it for a short time!

  • Welcome and I'm sorry for your loss
    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
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  • Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope you find all the love and support you need here and that your stay is short and sweet.

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    BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD:  5/9/2012 **  Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks

    BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD:  12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia   12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!  


  • Welcome to the board and I am very sorry for your loss.

  • Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for for your loss. I hope your TTCAL journey is short and sweet.
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    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
  • Welcome. I am so sorry for your loss.
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
  • Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the next 2 cycles go by quickly for you!
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    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

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  • I just wanted to say that I was sorry for your loss ... Welcome to the board, but I am sorry that you find yourself here.

    Fingers crossed these next two cycles fly by, and y'all are able to try again.

    Best of luck to you!

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses and welcome to the board. 
    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
    Third times the charm!  BFP on 4/18/2019, EDD: 12/18/2019
    PgAL/PAL welcome
    PAIF/SAIF welcome too!

  • Im so sorry for your loss!! welcome to the board!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

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    TTC Baby Rob #1 05/07, BFP 06/07, EDD 02/22/08, Baby Jackaroo born via c-section after 22 hours of labor on 02/27/08
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    TTC Baby Rob #2 06/11 BFP 11/06/11 EDD 07/16/12 Natural M/C 11/25/11 @ 6w3d
    Baby Rob #2 (Sloane), in our hearts always.
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    Here comes Baby Rob #3
     BFP on Cycle 17 09/27/12. EDD 06/04/12! Please Stick Baby! A/S 01/22/13 Baby looking great. Officially TEAM BLUE! Jack is getting a Baby Brother! RCS scheduled for 05/29/13. William Daryll born at 9:59am on 05/29/13. Left ovary and tube removed due to peach sized tumor found during RCS. Pathology came back benign!



  • I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • Welcome to the board, I'm so sorry for your loss.  
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    BFP#1 - 09/12/11, EDD 5/18/12 - Stopped growing at 6w3d, m/c induced 10/14/11
    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

  • Welcome.  I'm sorry you have to be here, but this is a great group of ladies.  Looking forward to getting to know you.
    BFP#1: 12/15/11 EDD: 8/21/12 Missed miscarriage @ ~8.5 weeks. D+C: 1/19/12
    BFP#2: 07/04/12 EDD: 03/14/13
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    *All Welcome*
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