Having one was nothing. It was pretty easy with DD because she was all I had to focus on. Now that DS is here and DD is about to turn 2, I find myself feeling pretty overwhelmed! Every second is consumed with one or both of their needs and I have to worry about DD getting into things while I am nursing DS... It is so tough to nurse him every two hours (he takes 45 min. to feed) AND focus on her needs as well. I know it will get easier and I will adjust, but in the meantime, I am definitely feeling pretty in over my head. Anyone else?