I know this isn't a big deal but today when I picked DD up from preschool her teacher said that she had a hard time keeping her in her seat today and she was very antsy and had to be spoken to quite a bit. She said that normally it's not an issue so that is good but I didn't know how to react.
I was just kind of like "uhhhh, sorry." Lol
I felt really bad and didn't know if I should have gently scolded DD or just said sorry or what. I've seen her tell other parents when kids have a bad day and the parents usually just laugh it off and it just doesn't seem enough to me. This teacher volunteers so it's not like she is paid and I know how tough my DD can be so I feel responsible or something.
I am not worried about it just curious how someone else would handle this?
Re: What do you say in this situation?
Exactly this.
I wouldn't have scolded her there. I would have told the teacher thanks for letting me know, and let her know that you would be talking to your daughter at home.
That. I probably would have asked if they were doing different activities or anything else different about the day that might have prompted a different behavior.