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T&Ps needed please (XP from FB)

I could really use some T&Ps for my mom. She's a stage 4 breast and ovarian cancer patient and she has been battling off and on for the last 18 years, although consistently for the last 9 or 10. She's had a really hard time finding a treatment that works for her for the last year or so and it looks like she is about ready to give up on treatment. She will decide after her next round of chemo based on her side-effects vs what her counts are doing, but it sounds like she has decided she's had enough. I don't blame her in the least and I knew this day was coming, but I'm so not ready for it.

Any good thoughts, prayers or anything else you can send her would be very much appreciated.
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BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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Re: T&Ps needed please (XP from FB)

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    So many T&Ps coming your and her way. That is such a tough decision. I hope she can find something that works. Huge hugs!
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    I pray you and your family find peace no matter what happens. And that the out come is better than could be expected.

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    I am so sorry! She will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers, as well as you. (( hugs))
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    Sending lots of T&Ps. Big hugs.
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    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    She'll be in my prayers. {hugs}
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    So sorry hon. Lots of T&Ps. ((hugs))
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    I can't imagine how difficult it must be to get to that point.  Your mom is in my T&Ps often and will be even more during this time.  Big hugs.
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    Sending you lots of T&Ps.  Hugs

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    Lots of love coming your way.
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    Sending T&Ps to you and your family.  ((hugs))
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    Lots of T&Ps to you and your mom. *HUGS*
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    Sending T&P. And ((hugs)) for you.

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    Oh honey, that's a lot to deal with, especially on top of a new baby.  Big (((Hugs))).  Many T&Ps for your mom and hopes that she finds a treatment that works for her.
    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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    T&P for you and your mom.  I can't imagine how stressful this is for your right now with your own surgery upcoming and the move and a new LO.  ((((HUGS))))
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    Sending T&Ps your way.
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