TTC After a Loss

If you ever wondered if God has a sense of humor...(pg mentioned)

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  • Saw that today too!  Indifferent

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  • I just threw up in my mouth a little.
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  • Oh for the love of Pete. 
    After 22 months TTC and the loss of our identical twins at 10w6d, we're excited about our rainbow baby!
    Stick, baby, Stick!
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  • imageMissMheMhe:
    I am sad for that child.

    this exactly

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  • I can't decide whether I should laugh or cry.

  • Geeeeez.  My husband and I have joked over the past month (since our loss) that the best way to get and keep a pregnancy seems to be to become a complete drain on society and drop our IQ by 70 points...  Guess this is proof.  :/
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  • are you flucking kidding me?  Angry 

    ETA: I'm so mad that I forgot a word!

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  • This makes me a lot more angry than it should...maybe it's b/c FF just took my crosshairs away again.
  • imagedelino:
    I just threw up in my mouth a little.

    This!  I don't think I am hungry anymore!!!

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  • no flipping way - that poor poor child
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  • Please tell me this is a sick joke
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  • imageDeethebee:

    I can't decide whether I should laugh or cry.

    This... I think I might just do both.

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  • Oh my, I feel sorry for the child, unless Snooki makes some HUGE changes!
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  • I am sick, I've been spotting for the past couple days, I just had two coworkers tell me they thought I was pregnant a few months ago but now they know I'm not because I'm looking thinner, and now this. My day is awesome.
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  • FML

    Between this and 16 and Pregnant I will have to avoid MTV altogether. 

  • I read that this morning and it annoyed me more than it should, probably because today is cd1.

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    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • Tongue Tied

    DH earlier this morning after BFN: You deserve it.

    Me: It's very clearly NOT about who deserves it.

     

    Am I right, or am I right??

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  • imagemijakach:
    I am sick, I've been spotting for the past couple days, I just had two coworkers tell me they thought I was pregnant a few months ago but now they know I'm not because I'm looking thinner, and now this. My day is awesome.

    Wow, all of that sucks, but especially the bolded! (((HUGS))) 

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  • imageChloBub:

    Tongue Tied

    DH earlier this morning after BFN: You deserve it.

    Me: It's very clearly NOT about who deserves it.

     

    Am I right, or am I right??

    You are too right.  And it sucks ball sacks.

  • Sweet baby Jesus, that poor, poor child.

    Hopefully she examines her life and makes some changes for the better.

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  • I am disgusted by this news.

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  • imagemijakach:
    I am sick, I've been spotting for the past couple days, I just had two coworkers tell me they thought I was pregnant a few months ago but now they know I'm not because I'm looking thinner, and now this. My day is awesome.

    I'm sorry if my post caused you pain. Sad I didn't mean for it to be hurtful. It really sucks that people who clearly have no parenting skills get to procreate with zero effort, and we're all here going through this bull$hit. It makes me seriously question things sometimes. 

  • imageMissMheMhe:
    I am sad for that child.

    Word. That kid is doomed. Please tell me this isn't real...

     

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  • imageDeethebee:

    I'm sorry if my post caused you pain. Sad I didn't mean for it to be hurtful. It really sucks that people who clearly have no parenting skills get to procreate with zero effort, and we're all here going through this bull$hit. It makes me seriously question things sometimes. 

    Oh no, of course not! I had already read about it earlier. And then I had my coworkers comment about how they thought I was pregnant so it's all just making for a crappy day. I'm just p*ssed that certain people who certainly shouldn't be procreating (or at least aren't mature enough yet) can get pregnant and stay pregnant so easily and some of us here are having such a difficult time.

    I'm definitely not upset that you posted about it! Stick out tongue

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  • I got nothing ... Nothing at all.
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

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  • It's just SO unfair!

    Why are all of us who are so deserving and want this so much and doing everything we can to become pregnant, and will love our babies to the moon and back not get this and she does?  I just don't understand sometimes.

    Oh well, like I said in my post above if it is true I can only wish the best for her and her baby.

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  • It's just SO unfair!

    Why are all of us who are so deserving and want this so much and doing everything we can to become pregnant, and will love our babies to the moon and back not get this and she does? I just don't understand sometimes.

    Oh well, like I said in my post above if it is true I can only wish the best for her and her baby.

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  • I think it confirms it, the apocalypse is coming. I can't believe that snail trail can get pregnant while the ladies on this board are struggling! 

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  • Should we revive this clicky poll for CPW or should I make a new one?

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  • I don't follow that show but I know of them.  Wonderful role models. First thing comes to mind...who's the father?
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  • imageMissMheMhe:
    I am sad for that child.

    Yes This. I can't believe it.

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  • W....T....F!     In what universe is this fair?!?   I need to start binge drinking - aparently that's what it takes.

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  • I think that Snooki will give birth to a healthy container of bronzer. 
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  • imageemeraudecephiro:
    I think that Snooki will give birth to a healthy container of bronzer. 
    hehehehe, This seriously made me LOL!!
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  • imageemeraudecephiro:
    I think that Snooki will give birth to a healthy container of bronzer. 

    This completely made me LOL!

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  • imageChloBub:

    Tongue Tied

    DH earlier this morning after BFN: You deserve it.

    Me: It's very clearly NOT about who deserves it.

     

    Am I right, or am I right??

    ((hugs)), Chlo.

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    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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  • imageMissMheMhe:
    I am sad for that child.

    Me too. What a great mom he/she will have...

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  • GRRRR!!!!!  *Just breathe and mentally throat punch that stupid worthless b!tch*

     

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  • imagewickedsugar:
    Tongue Tied and this Ick!

    exactly this. 

     

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