My MIL passed away 3 weeks ago (17 month battle with brain cancer). She had a great group of work friends that she hung out with outside of work and they even went on trips to Mexico, etc. These friends did come to our wedding and we met them another time when MIL was in the hospital, but honestly we don't really know them. At the funeral, they mentioned to me that they'd like to throw me a baby shower some time in March (I'm due May 30th) and they would reach out to my husband with some potential dates. I think this is so nice of them and I'm sure MIL would be so happy.
They emailed DH today and said they'd like to have the shower after the baby was born and wondering if June 3rd would work for us. I'm sure they have no idea what my actually due date is because June 3rd is only 4 days after my due date (yes i know baby may not come on that exact date) so we need to let them know a different date. My question is how long after baby is born would be ok to bring baby to a house of people and when will I feel up to it to have a shower after the baby is born?