My husband and I are brand new to the world of adoption and I'm at the asking questions stage. We are going the foster-adopt route and although I know that we could possibly have the child we are placed with taken away if relatives are found, I am wondering how to prepare our parents for that grief. We have been ttc for years and finally found out that I have a unicornuate uterus and can't conceive. We would like to do a surrogate someday but for right now we feel that the gods are telling us to adopt. Any advice helps. Thanks!