My best friend is having her 2nd baby. Her daughter is 3 years old and they are expecting a baby boy. I wanted to throw a shower for her first child, but her MIL did and it didn't make sense to have separate ones. So now that she's pregnant again, I would love to host something to celebrate the arrival of their first baby boy!
What is the etiquette for having a shower for a 2nd child? It is different sex, so I would like to do something for her, but I don't want to be tacky and make it look like a gift grab. (She has no idea I am even thinking about hosting something for her). Thanks for any tips!