TTC after 35


DH went for his second SA and bloodwork  on 04 Jan and 11 Jan respectively.   The SA came back and we were happily suprised by the change 9 million/mL to 53 million/mL and from 1% to 5% morphology. 

Then I waited and finally called the RE back to find out about the bloodwork and around 06 February, my nurse called back and told me DH hormones had come back normal but the karyotyping could take up to a month to return and that she would call us when they came in to set-up our next appointment with the RE.   It is way past a month now.  Am I supposed to suspect that the genetic information hasn't come back yet.  I mean for cryin' out loud....we aren't getting any younger and I want to put this to rest if we have to come to terms of not having children.

On the other hand, had a chat with FIL on Saturday night about this whole situation and (I am sure he didn't mean it to be insensitively) but he said if DH and I can't have children at least they would have DH cousins' baby that is due in April.  Well that's all fine and good, but what about me...what will I have?!?!?!

OK...vent over...thanks for listenting.

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Re: Frustrated!!!

  • Even if he did not mean to be insensitive, those comments sting.  Hang in there.
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  • Sorry that you are frustrated!  Conversation with you FIL sounds like a tough one.   I would def. be frustrated and calling RE about karyotyping results.
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  • I think at this point you are definitely justified in calling the RE to see where things stand.

    Sorry about your FIL's comment.

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