Tell the Truth

ChicagoBroad26

Does your H or significant other know how much you REALLY weigh? Mine doesn't. In fact, when I was on the phone switching insurance companies and they asked me my weight, I went upstairs so H couldn't hear. 

xxbabycakesxx

Yes he knows.  DH always tells me I'm underweight and need to eat more.

Cheekers2010

Hmmm, I doubt he knows exactly but more or less.

ChicagoBroad26

xxbabycakesxx:

Yes he knows.  DH always tells me I'm underweight and need to eat more.

Lucky girl!  

bosha711

I've told him many times, but he doesn't give 2 sh!ts what I weigh, so it's not something he commits to memory. In my pre-pg days, he always said I needed to gain.

He comes to all my OB appts where I get weighed, so he hears it then, too.

I don't even think hearing the actual number even equates to anything meaningful to him anyway. Like, if I said, "honey, omg, I weigh 132 lbs!" He'd be like, "Is that a good thing or a bad thing?" lol

 

OhSewCrafty

He knows about how much, but doesn't really care to know accurately.

ChicagoBroad26

H has never asked, nor have I ever told, but I just really don't want him to know the actual number, which, in my mind, sounds really high. 

xxbabycakesxx

ChicagoBroad26:

xxbabycakesxx:

Yes he knows.  DH always tells me I'm underweight and need to eat more.

Lucky girl!  

Lol, I guess so!  DH says he likes some meat on his woman =D  Maybe hes just trying to be nice?  lol

SmilingMrsF

He's always known about how much I weight.  He knows exactly what I weigh and I know his weight because we're both encouraging each other to lose weight.

--halo--

He knows, we bought a scale when I was pregnant.  I used to tell him how much I gained when I was pregnant, and now I tell him how much I lose. lol  I've leveled off below what I used to weigh before I got pregnant, so I'm happy.

lswivel

He knows, but only because I've been on WW the past year and he has been really good at supporting me. Now that I'm at my goal weight I don't mind him knowing.

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Yeah, he knows.  I don't think he cares too much though.

ChicagoBroad26

SmilingMrsF:

He's always known about how much I weight.  He knows exactly what I weigh and I know his weight because we're both encouraging each other to lose weight.

See, we do this too, but we don't ever tell each other our starting weight. We just say, "Oh, I lost two pounds" or whatever. It's never the actual number. He's actually never told me his actual weight either, now that I think of it.  

lulu8109

He doesn't know.  Sometimes when I'm bummed about how much I weigh, I'll whine to him about it.  I'll say "Babe, do you know how much I weigh?" and start to tell him.  He'll start making noises so he can't hear me. LOL.

jarebearsmom

Not the exact number. DH knew it at the end of my pregnancy (thanks OB! Lol). And now that I'm losing weight I'll say stuff like "I can't believe I lost 5lbs this week!" He could probably figure it out

AFanch1127

After I had LO I weighed over 200 lbs for a while and it really bothered me--once I got back under 200 I shared it with him since I was so excited.  He didn't believe I had ever weighed that much--I guess that's a good thing.  Now?  He doesn't know, but I wouldn't care if he did. 

Rink08

Yes, but only because I'm having weight issues with this pregnancy and have weekly weigh ins. Otherwise, he wouldn't know the actual number.

MrsDe2008

He knows. I don't think he really cares though. If he does care, he never voices it, so then it's only his problem. lol

EVM1216

He knows because I complain about it alot and he and I weigh approximetly same amount give or take a few pounds.

TMNTgirl

I'm sure he knows since I've told him randomly, but it's probably one of those things he doesn't remember. I guess it's never really been that big of a deal since I've pretty much always been thin

And I know how much he weighs and have been asking him recently to keep him motivated since he's still trying to lose the "baby weight" he put on during my last pregnancy. I lost all mine in between pregnancies and he didn't 

Serendipity117

DH knows and doesn't care. He loves that I'm curvy and so as long as I'm healthy and happy he couldn't care less what my actual weight is. The only thing about my body that would matter to him would be if my boobs somehow shrank a few cup sizes, he would be really sad if that happened.

jillybean800

He knows mine because I complain about it to him often, haha! But he hides his from me because he is ashamed Poor guy...

watermellens

Sure...a lot of people do probably lol we're doing the biggest loser at school and we weigh in privately in the nurse's office, but the other day I was impatient and had to go teach so I just used the scale that everyone was next to. I don't care!

Probably b/c I've done weight watchers before and for many months, so I'm used to telling people my weight, hearing it, talking about how much I've lost, etc. 

I'll tell you all right now - 149.6!!!

stephy1221

No, neither does my best friend or the DMV. If I could hack in to my medical records I'd change it there too.

Strunella

No, he doesn't.  He knew how much I gained during pregnancy, but he didn't know the starting number.  When it's come up in conversation, I say that a lady never tells her weight!  HA!

dee12807

Yup, H knows, I complain about it all the time  I think I got a bit of motivation though today.  I was on the phone with my sister talking about her pregnancy and her weight gain.  She's like 'yeh, I'm up to about 128'  and my reply was 'well that's awesome because we're the same height and build and you're almost 6 months pregnant and we weigh the same'

Fairy kisses

Dh knows but I don't think he really cares how much I weigh.  

babyonthebrain2010

bosha711:

I've told him many times, but he doesn't give 2 sh!ts what I weigh, so it's not something he commits to memory. In my pre-pg days, he always said I needed to gain.

He comes to all my OB appts where I get weighed, so he hears it then, too.

I don't even think hearing the actual number even equates to anything meaningful to him anyway. Like, if I said, "honey, omg, I weigh 132 lbs!" He'd be like, "Is that a good thing or a bad thing?" lol

 

this, exactly.  he knows, he just doesn't care lol 

principessa81

Umm, I think he has an idea, but he's never voiced it to me. And I certainly don't ask!

Mommysaurus123

Yep. He knows. I have him read the numbers to me if my contacts aren't in yet.

chrisncassie

Kellog+1:

Hmmm, I doubt he knows exactly but more or less.

this.  course we have a scale that keeps the last weight we took...sooo I guess if he HAD to know, he'd just check that.

lindseybell3

Why do you hide your weight? You look great! 

My DH knows but we are also pretty disgusting.  We don't poop in front of each other but we're not very far off.

lilmgirl

yes he does.