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Feeling really guilty

I posted last night about how I was trying to stay positive so that my DH and I could have a nice Valentines Day since it was our first as a married couple, even though it would have been baby Gary's 2 month birthday.  Last night we didn't talk about baby Gary at all because I know if we did I would have lost it.  We had a really nice night together (which I'm grateful for), but today I'm feeling really guilty that we didn't even talk about him once on that milestone.  I know that I thought about him all day long, but I worry that it seems like I was forgetting about him.  I just love my baby so much and so wanted to be a good mommy for him.  I feel like I'm falling short. 
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    You don't have to speak to angels for them to know you are thinking about them.  They live in your heart all the time and can feel it when it swells with love.
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    imagepottermommy:
    You don't have to speak to angels for them to know you are thinking about them.  They live in your heart all the time and can feel it when it swells with love.

     

    Yes I love this. I was feeling guilty that we didn't light their candles (urns) for Valentine's Day so thank you for this response.

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    imagepottermommy:
    You don't have to speak to angels for them to know you are thinking about them.  They live in your heart all the time and can feel it when it swells with love.
    Totally agree with pottermommy. He knows you were thinking about him all day. Please dont feel guilty. Hugs!
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    imagepottermommy:
    You don't have to speak to angels for them to know you are thinking about them.  They live in your heart all the time and can feel it when it swells with love.

    Agreed!  Though it's always nice to hear it as a reminder.

     

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    imagepottermommy:
    You don't have to speak to angels for them to know you are thinking about them.  They live in your heart all the time and can feel it when it swells with love.

    Love this!

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    Totally agree with pottermommy, she said it beautifully.
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