TTC After a Loss
Someone beat me with a mallet (BFP mentioned - not mine)
So my best friend for years has been dating my brothe for over a year now. They got pregnant with my niece last September, she is now 8 months old. Well they have had a ton of issues since she got pregnant with my niece. They live apart from each other now and have been trying to work things out. Well she just called me. She got a positive pee stick. She is freaking out and called the first person she could turn to. Me. I mean I love her to death and she is a great mom. However, this is horribly bad timing. I just hate how she can get pregnant by accident and I can't get pregnant on purpose and keep it. I just need to vent.
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Re: Someone beat me with a mallet (BFP mentioned - not mine)
BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!!
BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
Congratulations to the fabulous KGS2003! Her sweet boys are here! Grow boys grow!!!
I know exactly how you are feeling.
I really don't have any advice to make you feel better (I can barely make myself feel better) but with time healing does come.
A friend of mine has a 3 month old baby girl that she got pregnant with "by accident" and talks about how "hard it is to be a mother so young" and "how awesome my life was before" and it pisses me off!
I just keep telling myself one day I'll get my sticky baby...One day.
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
The part that just has me concerned is that she has so many issues with my brother. He isn't the most responsible person and can be a jackas$. They aren't living together anymore. She has gone through so many issues with my brother and depression the last few months. Plus my mom treats her like dirt and has since she got KU last time. It is terrible timing. Of course I will be there for it. Help her out. However, I can't stop myself from being jelly and thinking that it should be me first. I should be the one having a little baby. Not her. Ugh.
I completely understand.
Life isn't fair...
That really sucks ((hugs)). It is amazing that you are still being a good friend to her, it must be very hard for you.
I feel like if a person did not plan their pregnancy they are more likely to have a perfectly healhy pregnancy with a perfectly helthy baby. I have a coworker who is due 3 weeks before I should have been and she mentions almost daily that she didn't even want a baby but she is SO happy now and everything is just perfect! Vom.
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**