Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

New to this Board. Just left the 2nd tri a week ago.

I gave birth to Thomas Bailey Coulter January 24th 2012.  he weighed 1 lb 6 oz and was 11 inches long.  He was born at 22 wks 5 days.  God took him home after 2 hrs and 22 minutes.   We were able to hold him and comfort him during this time.  It is the hardest thing I hope I ever have to go thru.  I am 39 and this was my 1st pregnancy.   I just pray to God he gives us another chance.   I never thought I could love someone so much.   My heart still hurts and sometimes I feel as though I cannot breath but I know that life must continue.   Please keep me in your prayers.  I need all the help I can get. 
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  • I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye to sweet little Thomas. Late losses are always particularly heartbreaking. I'm glad you were able to hold him--even just for a fleeting moment. What a bittersweet memory you'll carry with you always. 

    I wish you peace and comfort, and I will absolutely keep you in my thoughts. (hugs) 

    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. You may want to also post this to the "Loss" board, as those ladies had later losses. Most of us suffered first trimester losses. 

    You will be in my thoughts, though. ((HUGS)) 

    Loss Board: https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/13224460/ShowForum.aspx 

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    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • Oh my goodness. I am so so sorry.  I pray that your heart begins to heal the best it can.
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine.  Many thoughts and prayers to you and your family. (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, and wish I had something to say to take away your pain. 

    I had a second tri loss last April with my first at 38, your right life will and does go on, but you'll always always have that special place in your heart for your son. 

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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I cant imagine the pain you are feeling. 

    Im praying for you and your family.

    Also, please feel free to check out the "loss" board. There are a TON of woman who have suffered what you have just gone through and they are amazing.

     

  • I'm so, so sorry for your loss.  Prayers of peace and comfort are coming your way, now and in the days to come.
    BFP#1: 12/15/11 EDD: 8/21/12 Missed miscarriage @ ~8.5 weeks. D+C: 1/19/12
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  • My heart hurts for you as I read this, and I can not even begin to imagine the pain that you are in. I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Thomas Bailey. I know, despite how horrible this has been for you, you are forever grateful for the time you had with him.

    Please do not give up hope on becoming a Mom ... Take time to mourn your son, and you will know when the time is right to try again. There are many women on this board and the Loss board who are here to support you, including myself.

    All my best to you as you and your husband go through this.

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

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  • My heart is breaking for you. I pray that you are surrounded by love.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope that you can start to heal emotionally.  I just lost my second pregnancy on Friday, so I understand the pain you are feeling right now.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Tons of hugs, thoughts & prayers to you & DH in this time of grieving.  I really hope you get a BFP as soon as you feel comfortable to ttc again.  If you ever need anything, the women on this board are phenomenal women.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this terrible time.
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  • I am so so so sorry for you loss. My heart just breaks for you. I am now 2 weeks post-D&C, and I can tell you it is slow going but it does get better. Just take the time to mourn and let your feelings out. I still have a good cry occasionally and it really makes me feel better to get it out. My T&Ps are with you!
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  • My heart breaks for you.  I cannot imagine what you are going through.  Many thoughts and prayers are headed your way.  I hope you can begin to heal.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my Thoughts and prayers. The women on this board are great. Feel free to express your feelings on here at anytime. We're here for you. Many many {{HUGS}}
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