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heartbroken for figgs

DesiraeSunshineDesiraeSunshine
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I guess things didn't go wellat the check today and they started the induction. Im crying for her,this isn't fair. It also scares the sh!t out of me......when are we done suffering???
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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    I know, it breaks my heart.  It just isn't fair, how many times can I be awe struck by how unfair things are??
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  • mdluv21mdluv21

    So very heartbreaking.  (And I agree scary.)

    My thoughts are def. with her, her husband and little boy today.

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    I can't believe she is going through this twice. . My heart breaks for her.This is so sad... T&P for you figgs. I'm so sorry.
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    I just saw this on PgAL.  My heart is so broken for her and her husband.  And my heart is also gripped by fear -- WHY?  Why does anyone have to suffer this loss once let alone twice. 
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  • JessicaRobbJessicaRobb member

    It is unbelievable that someone would have to suffer through this twice :(

    It is just awful. 

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  • Mjmksb04Mjmksb04 member
    Its so unfair Sad
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    It's so unfair and so awful
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  • lrichmond86lrichmond86 member
    So terrible.  No mommy should have to go through this once, let alone twice. 
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  • DragonflyBelleDragonflyBelle
    Ugh....all I can do is pray for her and that doesn't seem like enough... Sad
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member

    It's just not fair. I was really hoping for a miracle for them. Ugh. Once is devastating but twice is just cruel and unusual.

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  • careyaliscareyalis member
    It is just not fair. I feel like it never ends :(



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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    I saw her original post, but I was praying it was all going to be fine. I'm so sad for her...
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    It's so unfair that she is going through this again. She has been in my thoughts since I found out she was in the hospital.

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  • dandywarholdandywarhol member
    I too was hoping for a miracle for her.  :(
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  • pb127pb127 member
    Horribly unfair... figgs has been in my thoughts often. I am so very sad for her :(
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  • CaroleeCarolee member

    imagedandywarhol:
    I too was hoping for a miracle for her.  :(

    Me too.  This breaks my heart.

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    This is so awful. My heart breaks for her!
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  • ally2011ally2011 member

    What is happening?!  This hurts my heart so much.  I remember her posting about her impending induction in June/July last year and I wrote out a long post about everything to expect and I think we exchanged posts after.  Our losses were about 2 months apart so her name sticks out to me I guess.  I am just absolutely heartbroken that she is having to live this twice.  

    We likely have a 25% chance of it happening again and this is my fear.  Everytime someone implies that it won't happen again I tell them it can happen twice and does happen twice and we are not immune.   

    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


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