I am begging you both to remove all pictures from your profiles. Do you know how easy it would be for your respective exes to find all this stuff and know it was you b/c of the photos? Their lawyers could use it against you, ESPECIALLY if you are exaggerating or flat out lying about how things went down. It could come back to haunt you in a very negative way. I don't know either of you IRL and how you go about living your lives is of none of my concern, but I just feel like SOMEONE should point this out to you. Notice how many other people on this particular board don't have avatars or siggy pics? Smart.
A Law Student/ J.D. in 5/2012