Another friend is pregnant

nyc7781

Wonderful news.....but geez I feel like the odd man out.  It's like all my friends have children already or are pregnant.   No flames please.  Just needed to blab that out there.  I know my time will come too.....eventually.  Ugh. Vent done.

candaceleigh21

I totally completely understand.  I now know 7 people that are pregnant.  As much as I want to be thrilled for them, i always feel a little twinge of jealousy.  I know that it will be my time when it is meant to be.  Throwing some baby dust your way (and a little on myself just for good measure)!!

rrdiva1

Understand how you feel, I just remember I am at a age where it is going to happen.

I am 34 and dh is abt to turn 41 so in our ages, the reality is most people have kids and the kids are like teenagers lol.

That is ok with me though because you see a lot of stuff of how ppl raised their kids what worked and what didnt. Like you said you know your time is coming just hang in there,.GL!

OneHotMama89

Oh, totally understand. I feel the same way. I know so many women that are either pregnant, or just had a baby. But as PP said, I'm at an age where it's going to happen. The jealousy is totally understandable. It's nice to have a place to talk about it.

AshDahlia

I completely understand. We just found our my SIL is pregnant w/ her second, and while I'm very excited to be an aunt again, I can't help but feel jealous, and I feel guilty for being jealous. I am trying to remain positive and I know my time to become a mommy will come. Hang in there!

rockinmathchic

I also completely understand!  I am throwing my best friend's baby shower on 5 Feb.  When she told me she was pregnant (after three months of trying)I had already been trying for two months.  I still was positive, at that time, that a couple of more tries and we would be there too.  When that didn't happen, I was like surely before her shower.  Well that is in two weeks.  I am 7 DPO...guess we'll see soon enough.

Good luck! 

Milliways

It sucks but try to remember that you may not know the journey that they took to get there. Plus, think of all the great advice, baby clothes, etc. your friends will be able to give you.

MonsterBean3815

Milliways:

It sucks but try to remember that you may not know the journey that they took to get there. Plus, think of all the great advice, baby clothes, etc. your friends will be able to give you.

 Love this! 

nyc7781

iallrd8it:

Don't worry I'm not pregnant yet either I know it sucks but remember not everyone is knocked up, it's just that now that you're trying you focus on it more. I will do an imaginary shot with ya. 

Cheers to that;) 

nyc7781

Thanks girls! I felt guilty for being a teeny bit jealous.  Good to feel that I'm not alone.  Hugs. 

gplove94

I feel you. One of my best friends who started trying in December just told me she was pregnant yesterday. I'm so thrilled for her but definitely jealous of the fact that she tried for one month and got KU.   It is what it is and you just have to stay positive that your time will come.

tramik20

It is def hard to stay positive when a lot of others are preg around you.  I currently know around 10 ppl that are preg and a couple that just had a baby recently.  I am finally getting my af regularly again so it helps to be able to try with more confidence.  Good luck:)