In your homes...how much freedom does your LO have? Are they able to freely go anywhere in your house or are they gated to a particular room or rooms? We pretty much feel comfortable with her going anywhere but during the day when we're home we shut our bedroom and bathroom doors and she's free to roam anywhere else. Although, she's starting to figure out how to open those doors so it's time to get the baby proof knob covers!
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Pen has free range over our upstairs (bedrooms and a bath), and the main floor (kitchen, living room, dining room). By free range, I mean that she can be left unattended if need be for a period of time AND it's kid resistant.
The downstairs has all the bookcases, the fireplace, the laundry room (with the cat's food & litter boxes), as well as our office. We can close a door to restrict the bathroom, laundry room, and office if need be. However, I just don't feel like dealing with the bookcases. She IS allowed down there to play, but one of us is always with her.
Pretty much this. We close our bedroom door too a lot of the time, but otherwise he's free to crawl.
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She has access to the full "back" of the house, where our main living areas are. So, she can wander the kitchen/breakfast area, family room, and half of our huge office, which we converted to a sitting area and play area.
There are gates blocking off the "office" part of the office, the foyer, and the walkway to butler pantry/powder room/dining room. We also pull the pocket door to shut her out from the mudroom off the kitchen (dog bowl is in there).
When I'm sitting on the couch, I can see her in all of these areas, so that's why we blocked off the front of the house.
Then we have her playroom in the basement. She isn't allowed to roam upstairs yet (just plays in her nursery with her door shut if I'm putting her laundry away or something). That's because we still have to get gates for the top of the stairs.
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We have a pretty small house and LO has access to all the "public areas:" the kitchen and living room, as well as her room. We usually close off our bedroom and the computer room and the bathrooms, although I've been lazy about it lately and she's left my bathroom alone. She tends to prefer to be were we are so it's not been to big of a deal.
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We have a gated living room and sunroom and he basically spends his time in there for free crawling and exploring. We are thinking of moving our gate to include the dining room for his free exploration, but we haven't figured out what to do about our wine rack, which also has our wine glasses on it (we don't really have anywhere else to put that stuff) We only go upstairs when it's time to sleep honestly, so we haven't even baby proofed those areas. He's allowed in the kitchen when one of us is in there, but usually he is very content to sit in his high chair in the kitchen and play with a toy or watch us cook.
Anyone have any suggestions about the wine rack? I'm thinking some kind of cover?
Sounds like I'm in the minority, but we limit him to one room at a time, and there are certain areas he's not allowed in ever at all (kitchen, bathroom, hall where the litter box is). We have two dogs and a cat, and we never leave them together unsupervised, so knowing where LO and pets are at all times is a necessity.
Plus at this stage, if I so much as turn my back for 30 seconds LO is destroying something, climbing something or "adjusting" our electronics. I can't imagine the trouble he'd cause if he were allowed free reign of the house.
I think we will be using gates for a while...just imagining him roaming the house loose is making me sweat. LOL
He can go anywhere downstairs that he wants. We do keep an eye on him when he sneeks into our bedroom though. We have a huge garden tub that is currently covered and holding our plants - and he LOVES to turn the water on and make a freaking mess!
Going to need to get a gate for the upstairs though, so he can't go up as he pleases and fall down the stairs
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Pretty much anywhere in the whole house. We have a very small house and the kitchen/dinning/living spaces are all open, so there would be no way to gate them off at all.
Sometimes I'll shut our bedroom door and the spare room door. But if I'm in those rooms while he's awake then he's usually in there with me.
He plays in our bathroom (the cabinets are baby-proofed) while we shower/get ready in the morning. And he loves going into our walk-in closet and pulling out all my shoes and bringing them to me in the bathroom or putting them in laundry baskets. He makes a mess, but I don't mind cuz it keeps him occupied when I'm getting ready. And at the end of the day it takes like 30 seconds to clean up.
We keep DD confined to the living room a lot, this is where all of her toys are and the one place that is 100% baby proof. We do let her roam free a little bit but it's only when one of us can follow her around and keep an eye on her. My MIL actually recently told my DH she thought DD was "bored" and was worried that we always kept her "cooped up" which pissed me off. Maybe we should work on baby proofing the rest of the house... it would just require a couple more gates and securing a bookshelf.
And just because I'm super defensive about this I will add 90% of the time I play with DD in the living room. Our day usually consists of story time, some puzzles, shape sorters, stacking stuff, and song time. Not to mention I build little "tunnels" for her to crawl through (she loves this). It is not like I just toss her in there and go about my day. I give her about an hour a day for playing by herself because I think it's important that she learns to entertain herself and then I do most everything else during her nap - which is 2-4 hours.
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He is allowed everywhere except the bathroom. He's only allowed in there for bathtime, obviously. I don't really like him going in our unfinished basement, but MH takes him down there with him sometimes when he does laundry.
Our house is very small, so I can't imagine sectioning him off - especially b/c he's cared for in our home. I don't think it'd be fair.
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He has access to almost everything except the home office, garage, and my craft area because there are needles and scissors everywhere.
He's only allowed in bathrooms if we're with him, or else he tries to play with the trash. (He can't get in the toilets, so no worries about drowning yet.)
We let him climb the stairs when we are right behind him. If he tries to climb them on his own, he turns around to see if we're looking and will fall down.