Why is it EVERWHERE?

Petunia844

I feel like I try so hard and I feel like I'm making progress and the world around me is just trying it's absolute hardest to make it so hard!! There are pregnant women and babies literally everywhere I turn.  Everywhere!!  It's not bad enough that I feel like everyone I know is either pregnant or just had a baby but then they just have to be EVERYWHERE! Go to lunch- lady walks by and starts talking to a guy right behind me about her brand new baby.... co-worker goes and gets coffee and then for some stupid reason has to tell another co-worker about the new baby she saw in starbucks.  Come on! Please, just one day where I don't have to see what I don't have all around me... one day.  ::sigh:: Will I be less irritated by this when I have my rainbow in my belly? In my arms?  Ever?

mrssoprano

Petunia844:

I feel like I try so hard and I feel like I'm making progress and the world around me is just trying it's absolute hardest to make it so hard!! There are pregnant women and babies literally everywhere I turn.  Everywhere!!  It's not bad enough that I feel like everyone I know is either pregnant or just had a baby but then they just have to be EVERYWHERE! Go to lunch- lady walks by and starts talking to a guy right behind me about her brand new baby.... co-worker goes and gets coffee and then for some stupid reason has to tell another co-worker about the new baby she saw in starbucks.  Come on! Please, just one day where I don't have to see what I don't have all around me... one day.  ::sigh:: Will I be less irritated by this when I have my rainbow in my belly? In my arms?  Ever?

I don't know the answer, but it hurts for me too. ((Hugs))

BrittanyLeannM10

I felt the same exact way after I lost caiden. It honestly took me getting pregnant again afterwards too not care about this issue. Yes the hurt & pain is still there but it makes you so happy to have some hope coming into your life. Everyone was telling me to wait to have a baby I am so glad I didn't take any of there advice & started trying. Once your preggers with your rainbow baby it will definetly take this feeling away trust me hun just hang in there.

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weddedwife

I feel EXACTLY how you are feeling. It's like the universe is conspiring against me. I can't take 2 steps without seeing a baby, overhearing someone talking about a new baby, bumping into the six billion pregnant women that must live in my city alone...

I have an older child and so you could argue that I have had all those experiences already, but it still hurts me really bad. I can only hope when I get pregnant again it will be easier, but I think I'll just be too stressed out & paranoid.

johnnys june

I wish I could tell you it will be less irritating, but that's really up to you.  I still have my moments.  Initially when I see a pregnant woman I find myself wondering what her story is, how far along she is.  But the moment she says/acts like all the other naive women, it seems to hurt and irritate me just as bad.  I especially hate when people who have never experienced a loss decided to tell me a story about someone who has experienced a loss or even worse a "difficult pregnancy" (but they still have their baby).  I always think "I don't need to hear about other people, I KNOW women who understand."  KWIM?

*hugs*  Every single day of TTCAL seemed as if pregnant women and newborn babies were stalking my every move.  Sometimes it still feels that way... 

lrichmond86

I totally agree.  We currently have eleven (yes, ELEVEN) pregnant friends... all of whom post their ultrasounds and belly pictures on facebook all the time.