I live in Raleigh but can suggest a few things that may help!
We have a group called Triangle Mommies here that has an online forum & does playdates, there is a sister site called Triad Mommies http://www.triadmommies.com/
You can check on Meetup.com for groups.
Your local library most likely has baby story time that you can visit.
And you can also look for a MOPs group in your area http://www.mops.org/