Friend Vent...

baseballcr8zd

Ok, I have two best friends...we have all been friends now for over 20 years. One is married no kids and one is single. So I'm on the phone with my married bff last night and we are bs-ing and she tells me that shes' taking her husband to DR for his 30th....then tells me our other bff is going and so are a bunch of other people. So I ask, well why weren't we invited?? She said that she just figured we wouldn't want to go because of the baby and that everytime I get invited out I say no. Well, now I'm pissed. No I don't want to travel to DR but I'm your best friend an invite would have been nice. The last time they asked me to do anything she was at my house waiting for our other friend to go to the movies...she asked if I wanted to go after she watched my DH leave the house to work for the night. Really?!?! Yeah, let me pull a sitter out of a hat so we can go to a movie and get drinks. Thanks for asking me a half hour before, much appreciated!!

I know they don't have babies so they don't understand, but I feel like I have no friends right now and it's making me super sad. Top that with I hate my job and I'm having a pity party here today. Thanks for letting me vent ladies.

J9melissa

(((HUGS))) Sorry your friend is being a turd!

thomas2013

Unfortunately I know how this goes. I would be upset too. Sorry, I hope it gets better. 

Telly21182

Oh ((hugs)).  We're really lucky that most of our friends are cool with Ty "tagging along", inviting us out even if we can't go, etc. but we do get over looked and it sucks.  All of a sudden it was Christmas and I was like "um, what is everyone doing for NYE?"  DH found out that everyone was going to a bar and that we weren't on the email chain  By the time we found out about it not only was the guest list at capacity, but we didn't have a sitter.  No, I wasn't really excited about going out as is, but it was still a bummer to be left out.