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"Trending" As If I'm Going to M/C

Doc's office just called.  He said my HCG is "trending as if I'm going to miscarry."  He still wants me to come in Tuesday for the ultrasound, bloodwork and to see him.  DH is at work, so I'm here alone.  I had to send it to him in a text cause I can't talk clearly right now and if he's busy he may not answer the phone (he's a chef and can't stop in the middle of some tasks). 

I asked about progesterone supplements and they said with the HCG the way it is, he didn't think it would help anything at this point.  I'm ugly crying off and on right now, but I'm not ready to give up on this baby, yet.

However, I'm not sure I'll be up for the August check in on Monday if anyone would want to take that over, I can send you the list in a PM.

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  • ((huge hugs)) I'm sorry sweetie. Many T&Ps that you get good news on Tuesday
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  • Ugggh I am so so sorry. It's so incredibly unfair. However, it's not over til it's over, but I understand how you must feel. Ugly cry all you want and don't give up hope for the future. ((BIG HUGS))
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  • I'm sorry for that news. I thought your betas were going well?   How many have you gotten?  I hope that your doctor is wrong! 
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  • ((BIG HUGS))  I am so sorry that you're going through all this and are alone at the moment.  There's nothing wrong with holding onto hope and not giving up on this baby just yet, so keep that in mind.  I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Oh friend I am so so sorry... ((HUGE HUGS))  Did he tell you what your actual beta number was?  
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  • I am so sorry if you have to go through this :( Hopefully they're wrong though, and I'll have my fingers crossed for good news on Tuesday!!!! (((BIG HUGS))))
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    Oh friend I am so so sorry... ((HUGE HUGS))  Did he tell you what your actual beta number was?  

    Yeah.  In nine days, it only went from 4,163 to 13,908.  That's a 137 hr doubling time according to betabase.

    My sister volunteered to come over, but I think I'm just gonna watch some movies DH got for me and sleep tonight.  

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  • I'm so so sorry.  *Hugs*
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  • Sweet friend, I am saying MAJOR prayers for you and this baby. No giving up yet. Keep me posted. ((big hugs))
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  • I?m so sorry you are going through this. I hope things will turn around for you. Don?t give up until the very end. Sending you big hugs, T&P!!!

  • T&P for good news! I am sorry you are in limbo.

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  • imageAluenna:
    (Hugs) I am so, so sorry. I really hope that you're just one of the 15% who have betas outside the "norm" but still have a perfectly healthy pregnancy. FX that you get wonderful news on Tuesday.

    This!  {HUGS}

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  • I am so sorry. I really wish they had gotten you in today for that u/s, I know waiting over the weekend is extremely hard. Big hugs and I hope your DH can get home to be with you soon, maybe call a good friend to come over?
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    imageanonomity:
    Oh friend I am so so sorry... ((HUGE HUGS))  Did he tell you what your actual beta number was?  

    Yeah.  In nine days, it only went from 4,163 to 13,908.  That's a 137 hr doubling time according to betabase.

    My sister volunteered to come over, but I think I'm just gonna watch some movies DH got for me and sleep tonight.  

    Crying  I know that doesn't sound promising, but I know other ladies who've had really slow doubling times and gone on to have healthy babies.  It could still go either way still at this point.

     I'll definitely be praying for good news next week.  Try not to give up just yet!  I hope you are able to get some rest.  More ((HUGS)) 

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  • Aww no maxsom, ((big hugs)) I'm so sorry your going through this and I am praying that everything is still fine and this is just a scare. T&P to you.

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  • :::E-hugs:::  Movies sound like a good idea to try to keep you distracted. Wishing good news and sending up prayers. 

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  • ((Big hugs)). Still praying for you and your LO. I'm not giving up on you guys yet either. Hang in there.
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  • Oh, hon. I'm so sorry. Sending tons of T&P'S that LO is just getting off to a slow start. Huge hugs.
  • ugh, I am so sorry you are going through this.  Sending you T&Ps!
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  • No, no, no. Do not give up hope. With my first pregnancy my ultrasound was so far off my edd from lmp the doctor prepared me and told me I was most likely miscarrying and to expect the worst. Things turned around in a week and he was perfect. There's always still hope until its definitely over. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Just ride the emotional rollercoaster out on here and vent to us this weekend. You can get through this!!
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  • Maxsom I am so sorry and understand how difficult this is. I am not giving up yet and am going to continue to keep you and LO in my T&P.

    Huge, Huge ((((hugs)))) coming your way. 

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  • I'm so, so sorry maxsom.  ((hugs))

    I'll do August's check in if you want, just let me know.

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  • I'm so sorry you are in limbo...Hoping for good news for you on Tuesday!  Hang in there.
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this. Tons of T&Ps coming to you and your LO. 
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  • I'm so sorry!  I hope they're wrong and the news is better than expected on Tuesday.  I'll be sending T&P your way and try to take it easy until then.
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  • imageVikingQueen:
    ((huge hugs)) I'm sorry sweetie. Many T&Ps that you get good news on Tuesday

    ::lurking:: THIS! Hang in there, we're pulling for you!



  • Maxsom, I'm so, so sorry you're having to deal with this. I've still got my fingers majorly crossed for you and am sending you my very best wishes that all goes amazingly well on Tuesday. Huge hugs to you in getting through the next few days!
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  • I'm so very sorry you're going through this. I hope on Tuesday you get some good news and everything turns out to be fine. ((Big, Big Hugs))
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  • No!!! I have FX that things turn out ok.
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  • I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts.
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  • Honey, I am so sorry.  Beta's aren't all that though, like you said, don't give up on this baby yet!  My T&P are with you.  
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  • FX they are wrong!!! I'm wondering why they are even saying that...it seems your numbers are still WNL? All my T & P are coming your way friend!!! ((Big Hugs))
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  • Oh sweetie :( (hugs) I'm not giving up on you or that LO either. I hope you get good news on Tuesday. I know it's hard but hang on to some some! I'm here if you need me darling

    I'll do check in for you on Monday and then hopefully you can take it back over the following week!

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    Oh sweetie :( (hugs) I'm not giving up on you or that LO either. I hope you get good news on Tuesday. I know it's hard but hang on to some some! I'm here if you need me darling

    I'll do check in for you on Monday and then hopefully you can take it back over the following week!

    Thanks, LOML!  I'll PM the current list to you.  And, thanks to anyone else who volunteered.  When we started it, it was between LOML or me to host it, so I'll go ahead and have her do it this week. 

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  • huge hugs maxsom, I am praying for you and your LO and not giving up hope that its just a slow start and things will progress. I can definitely take over Monday's August check in for the time being if you need it. ((HUGS))
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    Oh sweetie :( (hugs) I'm not giving up on you or that LO either. I hope you get good news on Tuesday. I know it's hard but hang on to some some! I'm here if you need me darling

    I'll do check in for you on Monday and then hopefully you can take it back over the following week!

    Thanks, LOML!  I'll PM the current list to you.  And, thanks to anyone else who volunteered.  When we started it, it was between LOML or me to host it, so I'll go ahead and have her do it this week. 

    Ahh, sorry just saw this. Sounds good!
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  • I'm sooooo sorry :( T&Ps that everything will be ok for you and baby!!!
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  • I am so sorry you are going through this!

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    So sorry hun.  I hope you get awesome news at the Dr.!.

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