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Beta Update

JMayJMay member
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Looks like I'll be drinking on NYE.

Crying

Probably not going to do another cycle, per DHs request.  Would like to look into adoption, but DH not interested in that either.  I think counseling is going to be a definate if I am to stay emotionally close to DH, considering our difference of opinion regarding this issue.  I just don't see any other way to stay healthy.

Thanks for everything Ladies. 

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    Stacy092306Stacy092306 member

    (((big hugs))) I am so sorry.

    I am sort of in the same position you are, so I feel your pain regarding your DH.  I might be looking into counseling too. 

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    married2mrpoohmarried2mrpooh
    I am so sorry sweetheart, that is terribly difficult.  Especially, if Dh is unwilling to seek other options.  I wish you the best and a change of heart on his behalf or luck on both your behalves!
    Married to the Mr. 8/6/2008- Together 10+ TTC #2 R/X unexplained infertility/premature ovarian failure/diminished ovarian reserve
    FSH (16) AMH (.61) AFC (9)
    Male factor: low sperm count/ low motility
    IVF #1 11/10 brought us DS Stimming for IVF #2 begin 11/5/11 AFC (7) =( Protocol: Lurpon flare (2 days) + Lupron 10ml/Menopur 4 vials (AM) Lupron 10ml/300IU Gonal-F PM (converted to IUI) failed IVF 2.1 1/12 BFP!
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    hoping4morehoping4more member
    I came on just to check your update. I am so so sorry. Please don't leave us altogether, we will miss you!
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    Cynthia7461Cynthia7461 member
    imagehoping4more:
    I came on just to check your update. I am so so sorry. Please don't leave us altogether, we will miss you!


    This! I'm so sorry. I pray you and your DH get on the same page and I pray for your comfort.
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    lillinzloulillinzlou
    I am just heartbroken for you. I really hope you come to some resolve.I'll be thinking about you.
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    JMayJMay member
    Thank you all. I can't tell you how much your support means to me.  I won't go away completely, at least not yet.  There's this little, stubborn part of me that just.won't.give.up.hoping.
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    sgrobstesgrobste member
    That sucks :( I am sorry...those beta phone calls are hard even if you know it is coming.
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    TwizzleTwizzle member
    I am so so sorry. I was really hoping this would be the one for you especially given your situation with your DH. I hope you guys can come to a resolution.
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    pumpkinhead4pumpkinhead4 member

    Sorry to hear that Sad

    Hopefully you and DH can come to some resolve and you guys find peace in whatever decision you make. Hang in there!

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    gina&dave07gina&dave07 member

    Oh Jenna.  I am so sorry.  My heart breaks for you.  I completely understand about your DH.  My DH and I were not on the same page with how to proceed.  I hope that you can come to a decision that works for both of you.

    Please don't leave the board.  I love your upbeat posts!

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    KelliLyneeKelliLynee member
    imagehoping4more:
    I came on just to check your update. I am so so sorry. Please don't leave us altogether, we will miss you!
    This. I am so bummed for you. I was really holding out hope for you. : (
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    olsentobeolsentobe member
    hugs! Im so sorry!
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    jen-dalejen-dale member
    Jenna I'm so sorry.
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    I'm really sorry (((HUGS)))
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    notkateanymorenotkateanymore member
    {{{}}} I am so sorry. I do think seeing somebody with AND without DH would be beneficial for you. Hang in there...you will get through this no matter what happens.
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    Manderlin923Manderlin923 member

    I am so sorry :( My DH & I don't agree on things, either. We just had our second counseling session together and it is helping, I think. I also go alone. I wish you the best and hope that it helps you come to a compromise.

     

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    choirgirlchoirgirl
    (from phone and spotty Internet till the new year). CRAP. I am so sorry. I want to shake my fist at the heavens and also kick your DH bc I know that if we don't get another LO, I don't think I can get over it with my own DH. He dragged his feet when I knew it was an issue already, and now we are looking at OOP IVF? Anyway, Back to you, I am SO sorry, and I hope you can find a way to work this out with DH. Maybe lightning will strike him? Maybe we get him a horse and a map to Damascus.... I am so sorry, Jenna. Crap.
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    rnmommy08rnmommy08 member
    I'm so sorry Sad I hope you and your DH can come to some agreement.
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    gremaud07gremaud07 member
    So sorry to hear. 
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