Parenting after a Loss

Small vent about my "friend"

I really don't know why I am friends with her.  Since I left my old job we hardly keep in contact.

At my doctor's appointment yesterday my OB said "any time now" since DS's head is soooo low.  I didn't have an internal.

I told my friend this and that the baby needed to stay put for a few more weeks.  She says "Oh yay, maybe you will have him before Christmas!".  I told her I didn't want an early baby due to possible health complications.  Her response "Oh he will be fine".

Um okay.  Glad to know you can see inside my ute.  She's an idiot.

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Re: Small vent about my "friend"

  • Um, OK  lady. Huh?
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  • Dumbass.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15



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  • I hope he keeps cooking.
    *Married 10.10.08*
    TTC #1 9.09 - BFP#1:2.18.10= missed m/c, D&C 4.16
    BFP#2:10.22.10=Avelin born 7.2.11
    TTC#2: 2.13 - BFP#3: 7.25.13=Kelsey born 3.31.14
  • Everyone said this to me too when we found out we were having the twins early. It made me so mad... they have no clue what will happen. One of my twins ended up going to the NICU so I was right to have been worried (not that I wanted to be right in that situation). Hopefully yours will stay put!
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!


    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
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    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
    Please, please, please. 
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