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I want a MOTY award, please.

DD has had a fever for a couple of days. This morning, after no meds for about 7 hours, her temp was 98.8 rectally. So, like any good mother, I gave her tylenol and took her to daycare. 4 hours later, they called and said she had a fever and was shaking trying to eat her lunch. I went and got her, took her to the pedi, and she has an ear infection. Mommy fail. Seriously, how awful am I? Because I feel pretty bad Sad
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Re: I want a MOTY award, please.

  • Sad Sorry mama.  Hope she feels better soon!
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  • Don't feel bad, Mamma.  It took us four days to determine that L had an ear infection and get her to the pedi this week.  We thought it was just a cold as she was so congested and snotty nose.  This after her fever and everything too. 

    ((hugs))  You're an awesome Mamma.

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  • You couldn't have known....((Hugs)), mama.  I hope she feels better soon.
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  • You're a great momma, dont second guess yourself. 
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  • I wouldn't have assumed ear infection with just a fever, especially since it went away on its own. Hope she feels better soon!
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  • That sucks, but you're not a bad mom! Sometimes it's just hard to tell with them.

    Now, taking your DD to daycare with an intestinal infection - that's bad. Guess who did that? Me. (I thought she had a brief bout of diarrhea from eating something weird. She ended up having the stinkiest runs ever for almost a week...)

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  • Don't feel bad. I hope she's feeling better today.

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  • Don't feel bad, I think most people would have done the same thing. Babies need to come with giant neon signs that tell you what's wrong.

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    Don't feel bad, I think most people would have done the same thing. Babies need to come with giant neon signs that tell you what's wrong.

    This would help. A lot. 
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  • You can borrow my MOTY award because I did the same thing.  C didn't have a fever, but he had a runny nose and cough.  I blew it off as just another daycare cold.  Took him to the doctor 2 weeks later for his 12 month checkup, and yep, you guessed it, ear infection. 

    Happens to the best of us, V.

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