With my DS, we stayed for 5 days. My milk came in on day 4 and we had latching issues, so we just chose to stay. This time, I want to come home as soon as possible, particularly given we have my DS at home (my MIL is coming to stay with him). I have very little desire to spend time in the hospital, now that we're not first time parents, I'd just rather be at home!
So when is the soonest they'll let you leave? 4 days?
Re: RCS- when will they let you leave the hospital?
For both CSs (one in the morning, one in the evening), I was able to leave after 2 nights. If I had really begged, my OB would have let me leave after a night and a full day, but we both agreed that it would have been pushing it.
I had the exact same feelings as you about getting out of the hospital to get back home with DS. I'm sure you know that getting up and moving early and often will help you feel better. I think the fact that I asked to have my catheter removed asap, that I did hourly laps around the unit while DS was sleeping, and that I kept insisting on getting my own water gave my OB confidence that I really was fine to leave.
I hope you get a nice, quick stay!
Yes, everything you've stated is exactly how I feel! With my last c-section, I asked to get up and move around right away and they made me wait, and then my night nurse wouldn't allow it. This time I'm not accepting no-- at least I'm more educated on the entire experience! My surgery is scheduled next Thursday at 8:30am, so hopefully they'll let us go home by Saturday. I absolutely do not want to stay until Sunday/Monday.
First time I left at 5 days since he was in the NICU and they wanted me to stay close
Second time I left after 4 days
Nursed without dairy, egg, soy, peanut, treenut, fish, shellfish or beef for over a year.
Currently tandem nursing dairy, egg, and shellfish free.
DS born via emergency c/s after 20 hrs of labor. DD successful VBAC!
Learning Liam
With DD I had her on a Fri. night and I left Mon. morning. I could have left Sun. afternoon but I wasn't ready.
With this LO I am scheduled for a Wed. morning and she said I could leave as early as Fri. morning pending no complications.
I really want to get home to DD.
Well, we are supposed to stay for 3 nights...and if you give birth later in the evening it is usually upped to 4. (what happened with my first 2).
But I actually use my hospital time to sleep and rest and don't get in a big rush to get home. I love my kids whole heartedly but I just know how crazy things will be once I get home with 2 older boys running around and know that my sleep times will be limited. So I am staying as long as I can this time around. I go in on Wednesday morning and will be glad to stay until Saturday.
I had an emergency c-section on November 22 and was allowed to leave on the morning of November 24. My DS was born at 7:29 p.m., so I didn't really spend a lot of time in the hospital.
It was my first baby and I figured I could deal with the pain - plus I wanted to be home for Thanksgiving - but now I wish I stayed in the hospital a bit longer. I've been doing way too much and my incision has been bothering me like crazy. I'm still taking the pain meds two weeks after!
So, I understand you want to be home, but don't rush it - it's better to heal a bit before going home especially when you have another LO at home!
Lots of luck.
I will be having my 3rd and will stay as long as they want me too. I am no good to my kids if I am not rested and recovered somewhat! I do know alot of people like to leave ASAP though. If you can handle it then I say go for it!!!