In response to the responses from last night (sorry, my computer died)...yes, my ex is a douchebag. The letter is subtle, but definitely badmouthing me. I am taking a copy to the lawyer on Monday.
Also, I AM in the process of divorce. They have served him through his brother. If he doesn't respond in a certain amount of time, they will notify him of a court date, and if he doesn't show up, I get whatever I ask for within reason. And full custody. It just makes me mad that he is making NO EFFORT whatsoever to see his son. Irritating, especially when he sent that letter.
So how are you all doing today?