Anyone out there with a baby who takes a pacifier (who needs it with avengence until he can suck on his fingers safely without cutting his mouth) and its the only way to soothe him, but all night long plays the binky game of baby pushing it out, mommy puts it back in therefore destroying all of my sleep? I haven't slept for more than 45 minutes in a chunk in 4 days.
Also, my DS (amazing to say this) is beautiful but he doesn't want to be put down by anyone. If you put him down in anything, bed, boppy, etc, he screams. I just feel slightly at my wits end because even if he sleeping in my arms, if I put him down at all even asleep, he will wake up screaming. DH and I took turns doing the binky dance and then the rock the rocking cradle dance. I am starting to become afraid I will fall asleep with him in my arms but I don't know what to do.
I also am well aware that I am expecting way too much for my 3 day old son to be not cranky and crying but I didn't realize he would cry all the time he is awake. I figured at least some of the time he would be completely checking out the world. It seems everything I am doing for him, with him, to him is making him furious and so he screams.
I am just feeling frustrated and these hormones are kind of messing me around.
TIA for your input advice or tips to someone who doesn't know how to deal with this.
Re: Questions from a sleep-deprived FTM
this is all so normal. luckily this stage is short. we bed share and nurse side lying which gets me so much more sleep. you could also try encouraging her to suck her thumb instead. where does lo sleep? if it's not right next to your bed you might also try that so that when the paci comes out you can just reach over to put it back instead of getting out of bed
has your milk come in? if not, he probably is wanting to nurse when he's awake
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I am totally going through the same thing right now. Last night I tried BFing in the lying down position and kept LO in bed with us and LO and I both slept SO much better. When I get up to nurse him, no matter how tight the swaddle, he seems to wake up the second I put him in his PnP. We have been doing a bedshare PnP combo but have only gotten him to sleep in the PnP for 1 shift out of the 3 that he usually gives us at night. Also, for some reason he has no problem sleeping during the day!! ahh!
As far as being held. Ive only managed to put him down for 10 minute stretches 1-2x a day in the swing without him getting fussy. My SIL's who have 4 boys and 3 boys respectively, all 5 y/o and under say this is totally normal for a baby this age. It helps me feel a little better, if not any less exhausted! Hope this helps!!