Whenever anyone asks me about or talks to me about "trying again" I cringe at that phrase. Does it bother anyone else? "Trying again" insinuates that you failed the first time, so now you have to try again. I did not fail, I had a beautiful son, the most beautiful boy I've ever laid my eyes on, he was amazing, and my husband and I conceived him and I gave birth to him. He was not a failed attempt at pregnancy... I may never understand why he was chosen to leave before he got to shine outside my womb, but he did shine and he changed my life forever, so don't you dare insinuate that he was a failed attempt at anything. If you had a child and were going to get pregnant again people would say "are you trying for another baby" well that's what I will be doing as well. I haven't actually corrected anyone, I guess I figure they'll think I'm nuts... but I'd love to know I'm not the only one who's toes curl when they hear that phrase.
Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!