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Self-esteem in the dumps. :(

dandywarholdandywarhol member
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Ugh, my self-esteem has been close to non-existent the past few days.  Tonight my husband more or less told me that I run slower than a dead slug.  :(  Ok, he was much nicer about it but that's what I heard in my head.

I feel fat.

I'm breaking out.

My hair has a few inches of dull brown & silver roots while the rest of my hair is blonde,

And I had a bad workout.

Woe is me.

Anyone else want to join the pity party?

 

BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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Re: Self-esteem in the dumps. :(

  • kate6267kate6267

    (((HUGS)))

    I feel fat... 

    I feel like my body cant even keep my babies safe....

    I feel like my body cant work right and get my period back after my loss...

    I feel useless and lost

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  • Auki13Auki13 member

    ***Raises hand***

    I also feel fat, I constantly pick at food and feel guilty about it, my face is breaking out, my hair looks like crap, I'm tired, and I don't want to do anything... 

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  • dandywarholdandywarhol member

    *passes around a plate of calorie free cookies*

     kate6267, I feel the same way about my body and the PP period.  

    I feel like I have little or no control over so much.  

    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty

    I would like to join in...

    I feel so fat yet I don't feel motivated to do anything about it.

    I have stretch marks in places that I didn't think I'd get them.

    I feel like my body won't get pregnant.

     

    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89

    (((hugs)))

    I also feel fat-I weigh the same as I did before but everything is just shaped SO different.

    I feel like I sweat more,leak when I cough,sneeze etc so I wear a panty liner all the time.I'm sick of constantly feeling wet,and like I smell funny.

    I am sick of the arthritis/pinched nerve/whatever the hell in my right leg that I've had since I had Adria.It doesn't really hurt,but if I sit for a long time I limp a bit when I get up,and it's a bit weak.And I don't even have my baby to show for it...

    which makes it hard to work out or stay in shape,which also annoys me.

    That felt sooo good!

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    BFP 1 1/22/10 EDD 9/30/10 Adria b. 9/11/10 d.8/9/11, Transposition of the Great Arteries,
    Pleural effusion, Kidney Failure
    BFP 2 4/26/12 EDD 1/3/13 M/C 5/13/12
    BFP 3 10/3/12 EDD 6/17/13 Twins! Preston and Juliet b. 5/22/13

     

     

     

     

     

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  • drvst8drvst8 member

    I know what you saying...

    I feel fat even though I've lost 10lbs from my prepregnancy weight. Everything is just shaped different.

    I got my PP AF but it still doesn't feel like my body is getting back to normal.

    And start me with the stretch marks.

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  • karebear57karebear57 member

    I too feel fat.I didn't gain that much tho but i was fat before everything too

    My boobs  seem to have shrunk a little but they are 10x's saggier than before

    My hair looks and feels like some cheap-ass dolls hair

    Oh and i feel FAT! And I want to lose wt.but idk i just don't feel like it

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