MIL is evil!

dejavu

so unfortunately i don't have one of the best MIL.  i know she tries to mean well, but she never thinks before she says or does things and totally makes it worse.  a little backstory, DH as azoospermia (no sperm) so can't have bio children).  this weekend she was over at my mother's haveing dinner and said to my mom that maybe it's a blessing that DH (her son) can't have kids b/c her mother (DH's grandmother) had a child that had some severe health problems and died.

are you fekking kidding me, who the hell says that kind of sh!!t???  if you were so concerned maybe you shouldn't have had kids yourself.  and what happens when your daughter decided to have kids, will you tell her maybe you shouldn't.  i just can't beleive she would say something like that, it is so hurtful.

yankee42

how horribly insensitive...people just don't think before they speak sometimes..im sorry

GM&DG

OMG, what a dumb thing to say! It is laughable when you consider that yeah, she had kids in spite of this "illness" and she has a daughter! Who knows what some people are thinking!