I'm quite familiar with these boards, but typically post on another. I hope my "intrusion" is ok.
I'm dealing with something very difficult in it's own way (we all have our mountains) and searching for someone who's walked in these types of shoes, I guess.
I'm almost 20 weeks along with g/b (fraternal, di-di) twins. In short, our son is likely not going to make it. (LUTO/bladder issues) They expect him to make it at/near term, in fact that's our "best case scenario" because it will give his sister time to grow strong and healthy. (she has a potential placenta issue of her own, uuugh)
On top of it all, I have my own health concerns, this is my 13th pregnancy (one living daughter) and my sanity is hanging on by a mere thread, on a good day.
While I've been able to find and talk to many mommas who have carried to term despite fatal prognosis, I'm still looking to connect with a family or two that have delt with the twin thing. Needless to say it's SUCH a hard thing to wrap your mind around - hoping one makes it, knowing the other won't. Just the logistics of their birth day has me spinning.
Any guidance, blogs, or ideas welcome. Of course, I wish you all nothing but peace as you deal with your own losses... something I wish no mother ever had to know.