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ruthymusneyruthymusney member
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Feel the need to talk to everyone you know IRL that has lost a baby? I feel like I want to talk to everyone who this has happened to. I don't force them to talk, I just try to talk to them, I guess beacause we have something in commen, and something others don't like to talk about.

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  • LoveOfMikesLifeLoveOfMikesLife member
    I don't know anyone IRL that has been through anyone like this :( I am workin on a GTG for a few that I've met on the boards and other websites
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  • AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    Yes! I have gone out to lunch and talked on the phone with friends of friends that I don't even know. It's like I crave that connection. 
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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    Absolutely...they are the only people who get it. 
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    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member

    Besides my parents, I didn't have anyone to talk to that had been through a late loss until I started going to my support group. I will talk to anyone about Aidan and sometimes I find out that people have had a miscarriage and they finally feel comfortable talking about it.

     

    Or I text people on a Saturday to see how their day is going and they don't respond to me...Wink

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  • Jackie2200Jackie2200 member
    Absolutely. I have gone out to lunch with random coworkers that I've never spoken to before.  I have stalked old sorority sisters that I haven't spoken to in years...they're now some of the only people I talk to.  They're the only ones that get it. 

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  • cookie_queencookie_queen
    Definitely. You need people who really get it.
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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    imagemagdalina.h:

    Besides my parents, I didn't have anyone to talk to that had been through a late loss until I started going to my support group. I will talk to anyone about Aidan and sometimes I find out that people have had a miscarriage and they finally feel comfortable talking about it.

     

    Or I text people on a Saturday to see how their day is going and they don't respond to me...Wink

    Whaaa? I just looked thru my phone! I got nothin'.  Did you text me, or are you giving someone else a hint? Stick out tongue

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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    imageruthymusney:
    imagemagdalina.h:

    Besides my parents, I didn't have anyone to talk to that had been through a late loss until I started going to my support group. I will talk to anyone about Aidan and sometimes I find out that people have had a miscarriage and they finally feel comfortable talking about it.

     

    Or I text people on a Saturday to see how their day is going and they don't respond to me...Wink

    Whaaa? I just looked thru my phone! I got nothin'.  Did you text me, or are you giving someone else a hint? Stick out tongue

    Well that explains why I didn't get anything back from you. lol

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  • b0undl0v3b0undl0v3
    There is one women that was pregnant the same time as me and she miss carried,and after i lost Bentley she flew from oklahoma to be out here with me even though she is terrified of flying.I think its normal to want to be around someone who can relate.even though her loss was not the same we still talk about it and it is nice to say all the things most other would judge you for but she doesn't.
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