I don't understand why I let myself get so irritated by other people being so naive about their pregnancy. Like a week ago, DH was telling me that a college friend of his posted on FB that they are expecting a baby on 5/26/12. Which means she was announcing her pregnancy at about 9 weeks along. I'm 12 weeks and I'm not even close to announcing yet--other than parents and siblings and one close friend, no one knows I am pregnant. I see similar things on my BMB. People who are posting their FB announcements to the world at like 8 and 9 weeks, or saying that they've already told everyone at 7 weeks. Then today, there's a post on my BMB asking who's decorated their nurseries already, and a bunch of people are like, "I have!" And keep in mind the farthest person along on my BMB is 14 weeks.
I don't know if it's a jealousy thing--like I wish I could be that naive again or just like a frustration thing. I mean everyone knows, whether they've had a loss or not, that 1st tri is an extremely high risk period. Everyone. And the fact that people start ordering cribs and painting nurseries and announcing their pregnancies at 8, 9, or even 10 weeks pregnant, I just don't understand. It just seems so foolish.
I think I'm just being a huge b*tch, but for some reason this just REALLY makes me nuts. I totally get my panties in a bunch about it. Is it just me? Am I just the bitter PgAL lady or what?
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!