and after calculating when my due date would have been it would have been a few days apart, both end of May babies.
This is going to be a long hard road to recover from because when I see her I will be reminded each time of my lost little one. When I think of her being pregnant I think of my lo.
WOW! this is way to emotional and I don't know how I am going to make it emotionally.
Re: SIL is pregnant
Big hugs to you. My younger sister is pregnant with her first child....and the due date is exactly one month after what mine would have been. While I am happy for her, and want her to have a healthy pregnancy, I find that I can barely look at her.....I am sure that your experience with your SIL is similar.
It will be a hard road, but please know that you are not alone if you need to vent.
Edit: wording
Thank you for your replies it helps a little to know I am not the only one who has these feelings. I too am excited for her she has wanted another for over 3 years and her DH kept saying no. SO for her this is exciting.
I just will have a hard time at family gatherings and her getting all this pregnancy attention (which is always good for the mother) but it will hurt no matter what.
I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
My brother and SIL announced they were going to start ttc the week before we found out about our missed miscarriage. I am terrified of her announcing that she's pg soon.
Aww, I'm so sorry hun. One of my best friends was due 2 weeks before me and is still very much PG. I too will be reminded every time I look at her. It just sucks On top of that, my sister had a baby girl 2 days after my MC. On one hand I was SO HAPPY to hold my precious new niece, but on the other hand I longed for the baby I'll never get a chance to hold.
{{{hugs}}} to you!
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