So a few weeks ago we took family pictures, and I had told BM#2 that I would send her some of the pictures of SD. I only wanted to send her pictures of SD, or even SD with the other kids, but not the full on family pictures with DH and I in them.
The problem, the photographer put all the pictures on pictage and I am not about to buy pictures to give to bm (they are on the pricey side.. almost $6 for a 4x6). I thought the photographer was going to give me a disk with the pictures on it, then I could just save and send the ones I want. Now, i can make certain pictures private, but I also wanted to send the pictage link to our family, with all the photos in it.
I am leaning towards just not sending her anything, what would you do? Send nothing, or send the link with everything?
Re: WWYD re pictures
I agree with PP. I think, just send her the link to all the pics...there's no harm in it.
She might, for target practice
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I would ask the photographer if he would mind setting up another link with pictures of just SD for BM to view. The worst he can say is no.
I sent her the link. Worst that can happen is she has her own little meltdown, but she won't say or do anything crazy to me anymore. Not since I called her out on her insane behavior last year.
$6 for a 4x6 from a pro is super CHEAP.
Either spend the money or give her the link