I flinched...(FB friend posted a u/s pic..not hers)

melly918

So, I open my FB page and lo and behold is an ultrasound picture. My heart nearly skipped a beat. It is ridiculous though...the friend shared this picture. It's not hers. It's her brother's wife's u/s.

Whatever. Rolling my eyes.

 

SouthernBellaKS

That's...odd. At least, to me it is. I suppose for her it wasn't. I don't think I'd want somebody posting my U/S on their FB.

emeraudecephiro

I might have stabbed somebody.

melly918

SouthernBellaKS:

That's...odd. At least, to me it is. I suppose for her it wasn't. I don't think I'd want somebody posting my U/S on their FB.

I thought it was odd too. And after gauging my initial reaction when I first saw that photo, it makes me think about being more sensitive with posting anything about a future pregnancy. 

I hid that post so I don't have to see it again.

amyrdz522

I had a FB "friend" who did the exact same thing... I had the same response.

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TIFFANYTORRES1984

While I find it strange that a brother/sister in law would post it to theirs, when I was PG awhile ago my mom and Aunt posted my U/S pics to their wall out of excitement for me. I never had a problem with it, although I look at things differently now after my loss I still beleive when I would be ready to tell the world I wil still post my u/s

jenn0021

I'm sorry. I hate getting blindsided by u/s pics on FB. If I ever get to be pregnant again, nothing, I repeat NOTHING, is going on FB about it. I've been hurt too many times and wouldn't want to cause the same pain to someone else.

Kasi80

Hmm...weird.  Maybe she was tagged in it or maybe she's uber excited.  Either way...ouch.

Kasi80

melly918:

SouthernBellaKS:

That's...odd. At least, to me it is. I suppose for her it wasn't. I don't think I'd want somebody posting my U/S on their FB.

I thought it was odd too. And after gauging my initial reaction when I first saw that photo, it makes me think about being more sensitive with posting anything about a future pregnancy. 

I hid that post so I don't have to see it again.

This is how I feel.  Nothing will ever go on FB about my next pregnancy.  In fact I don't even post statuses anymore period. 

My SIL's profile pic IS of her u/s.  She's been deleted.

amandachs

emeraudecephiro:

I might have stabbed somebody.

This.  Especially today.  Why do people think that's ok??  Especially when it's not theirs?!?!

SouthernBellaKS

See...neither one of us ever went public on FB because we were keeping it low key until after our first trimester. We'd told our parents and a few very close friends and family, but let them know that we weren't going public so not to tell anybody. My mom can't keep a secret to save her life, and took the liberty of telling whomever happened to come by the house when we were visiting.

 But...the kicker came when she created a FB account, and one of the first status messages she had was announcing she was going to be a grandma because I was pregnant. I was so livid because we hadn't even done that on our FB. To make it worse, she did this the day before we found out about our m/c. So she effectively got herself put on the "Will not be told until the 2nd trimester" list.

tatercater

jenn0021:

I'm sorry. I hate getting blindsided by u/s pics on FB. If I ever get to be pregnant again, nothing, I repeat NOTHING, is going on FB about it. I've been hurt too many times and wouldn't want to cause the same pain to someone else.

Same here, lady!  I feel the exact same way.