frustrated by "quality time" with hubby

countrygrl5533

Finally starting to get my libido back. It's been just over a week since my random spotting (not connected to sex) that got me sent for a ultrasound. Was told to abstain for a week but should be good after that as long as we went slow and gentle (exact quote). And if I spot again, wait a few days and try again.

We tried this morning. Yup. Now I'm spotting again and a bit more than normal when this happens. Has stopped now though. Been checked many times as this has happened a few times already. Nothing wrong that they can find. Baby is fine, I am fine. Just like to bleed after sex apparently. Doc says I probably just have a sensitive cervix. That doesn't help the frustration of bleeding almost every time after sex. Not that it is happening all that often anyway due to all the spotting. Ends up being like twice a month right now.

Anyone else go through this either this pg or a previous? Did you bleed after sex for your entire pregnancy or did it finally stop?

EmaDirlos

I haven't gone through this, but I can empathize. It sounds difficult, the only thing that comes to mind is a friend of mine who had spotted quite often during her pregnancy, and it was because her placenta was so low...it was basically covering her cervix. So during sex, or even just pressure from the baby at times she would spot and bleed....ask the Doc if this might be the case with you? Take it easy...and if I were you I would try a variety of things in bed...that are gentle or more based around cuddling and closeness to still feel close to hubby/SO.